Is an innocent virgin a turn off to an experienced guy?

I'm a virgin, don't cuss, don't drink/smoke/do drugs, never even kissed a guy.

I just started dating a guy 5 years older than me, and he is a social drinker, smokes weed occasionally, has had multiple sexual partners, etc...

weve been on two dates now, and the most he's done is put his arms around me, kiss my head and hands, hold hands etc... He knows I have 0 experience, and said he's going to take it slow with me so I'm comfortable.

is that a turn on or a turn off? Would you like an innocent girl or would you want a more experienced woman?
I'm experienced and would love an innocent virgin
Vote A
I'm experienced and would rather an experienced woman
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I am indifferent
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Oh boy... virgin, dating an older, social guy...
    This ain't gonna end well.

    First of all, let me say my opinion. I don't care if she's a virgin or not, but I would care if she was a slut. As in, somebody who had a lot of partners, or used sexuality to get by in her daily life.

    Now, back to you. Run.
    The guy you are with is a player. He is going to juggle you along with 5 other chicks, and then place you in his personal harem. And since you are inexpetienced, you WILL get attached to him emotionally, and you won't be able to leave him, no matter how hard he fucks with your trust - because he's a sweet talker, and you are inexperienced.

    Leave him, and find a guy who is worth your time.

  • I don't think it really matters as long as you genuinely love the person. It really isn't that much of an obstacle if she isn't experienced you just have to establish trust and take things a little slower. Being a girls first is almost like an honor I suppose.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It depends on the guy. Some guys don't have the patience or don't want to be with a virgin, so they prefer more experienced women. Some are virgins themselves and want someone to teach them. Some don't care and some prefer virgins.

  • I’m an innocent virgin and I don’t mind if a guy cusses but I don’t want to be with a guy who drinks, smokes, or does drugs. As far as experience goes it doesn’t matter as long they take it slow so personally it’s not a turn off

  • Actually, experienced guys sometimes get a huge kick out of being the one to corrupt good girls like you. I would be careful with this guy, you can’t be too sure of his intentions.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Option a and your a turn on, not a turn off, but you shall be cautious about not falling in the wrong hands

  • Inexperienced, would love to have an inexperienced girl

  • its not that big of a deal but i would prefer experience

  • No one gives a fuck, give it up for free and see how that turns out for you.

    • "innocent" Goes on a website to fish for attention from some unknown guys pick one

    • Fish for attention? I'm asking a question. This guy gives me plenty of attention trust me. I just asked a question I'm genuinely curious about. Even today he was joking about me being a virgin...

  • No..

    • You’re an innocent virgin and that is a turn on to me

    • I love you

    • I love you too

  • After he finishes with you I want to be with him to show me. :)

    • Very funny lol. I'll let you know if we stop seeing each other haha jk

  • Just let him take over and you will be fine. The more you do it, the better it feels.

  • An innocent virgin is way too young. A turn off.

    • I'm 18, he's 23

  • Guys aren't really into experience, at any level of experience themselves.