Anal can hurt for a number of reasons. The main one is the sphincter has decided to clamp shut and refuse entry. Forcing anything in is going to feel like a kick from a horse. Another issue can be using the wrong lube or not enough, in this case expect friction burns. Finally the rectum isn't straight and there's a bend at the back. Hard thrusting with your legs straight can cause a deep thumping pain.
Contrary to what porn suggests men usually don't want to inflict pain for the simple reason they want sex again in the future. With proper preparation, good penetration techniques and not tapping like a demented woodpecker anal shouldn't cause any pain.
When girls seek something a bit harder they're not usually wanting to feel they're getting their insides ripped open. More to feel a sense of being dominated and the exhilaration of being pushed to their limit for a short time.0 2 0 0
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No it is not always painful... if you want it and are relaxed and adequately lubed up anal sex is great... my husband can easily make me orgasm multiple times while we have anal sex
1 1 0 0@mandylynn how do you reach orgasm from it when there is no sexual organs in your anus?
I thoroughly enjoy anal sex and if give me great pleasure
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(8)I think it can start out painful but dissolve into pleasure.
0 2 1 0@bigbluey you think? have u not tried it?
Oh no I have done it but not that much
@bigbluey how many times have you had anal sex? how big was the guys cock? how painful was it to start with did he use lube? did u orgasm from it in the end?
Always is a big word but most of the time it start pretty uncomfortable 😕
0 3 0 0big word? what do you mean? have u done it many times? when you say uncomfortable what is uncomfortable about it?
Big word : always would not be a word I'd use cause its not always painfull A few times Uncomfortable cause it's not my preference and it hurts more often
@foxeyes have you ever had a really good anal sex experience?
I would never.
0 2 1 0yeah it’s pain i don’t like it
0 1 0 0@vduong1988 how many times have you tried it?
once
@vduong1988 did he use a lot of lube?
I love anal it typically can be uncomfortable to hurting the first few times but once you loosen up a bit it doesn't hurt it only brings pleasure
1 2 1 0can you describe the uncomfortable? and the pain? what kind of pleasure does it bring?
ShitNo pleasure
0 2 1 0? can you elaborate as I take your answer to be no pain and all pleasure
If you really want to know how it feels? Get your partner a strapon & have her do you anally then you will know first hand how it feels.
0 1 0 1have you ever fucked anyone with a strapon?
Hell no.
I don't like it, but I know girls who do. I guess it's OK if you prepare for it, but I'm not sure.
0 1 0 0what dont u like about it and what do the girls you know who do what do they like about it?
Mostly it hurt, but I also worry about the hygiene part of it. I guess the girls who like it a better at relaxing and maybe better prepared.
did u use lube? hygiene was he not wearing cock sock?
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