Guys, is anal sex mostly about status or something else? What do you get out of it?

[Anonymous]

[Twalli]

It's a sex act that you may like so you should try it. Otherwise you can't know for sure. Also all guys and girls are different so you should try it at least once with each person you date.

[Asker]

Nope. That's just disgusting and I hate the double standard here.

[Twalli]

How is it s double standard

[Asker]

Men expect it from it. They think they're entitled to it. Though they'll do it themselves lol.

[Asker]

*from women sorry

[Twalli]

I don't expect it more than once.

[Asker]

You still expect it.

[Twalli]

Because you might like it

[Asker]

If anything, men are more likely to enjoy it due to prostate stimulation.

[Twalli]

That's true which is why I am open to pegging if my girlfriend wants to do it.

[Asker]

That's fair then but it's uncommon too.

[Twalli]

That's because guys don't realize that about the prostate

[Asker]

Pretty accurate.

[dovido]

mostly about tighter hole but many men use it as a status.. all these kiss and tellers

[PrudentGuy]

I never had anal sex. Hence it meant nothing to me so far.

[CharlieBadger]

It feels really good.

[Ogrey95]

If I go for anything in this situation it's results. pleasure is the focus control is key and respect boundaries is without saying

[Raunch]

People think you get status from anal sex? Dude it's just a fucking hole! Literally and figuratively speaking!! It's a fucking hole! Pun intended!!

[normalice]

I don't know if it qualifies as status, but what I get out of it is the thrill of being with someone who "gets me."

[Asker]

What does that even mean?

[normalice]

Hard to explain. Hmm... have you ever heard the expression "a lid for every pot"? There are a lot of questions of compatibility when two people who were necissarily born complete strangers to each other decide to spend their lives (or even just one night) together. And the quirkier one's desires are, the more satisfying it is when the person they are with meets those demands of their own natural volition. It's not even really about the anal sex so much as it is about having found a girl who likes anal sex. And while you could argue having such a girl gives one a higher status, that wouldn't be my motivation for it. For example, if my choice was between two girls: 1) didn't like anal but swears to tell everyone who asks that I give it to her nightly and am exceptionally good at it, or 2) loves anal as much as vaginal but would prefer to keep it a secret, I would pick (2) every time.

[hammo21]

We get jack shit haha, get it

[ecfresh]

The person I had the most anal sex with was very turned on and had naughty thoughts when we did it. Knowing how much it turned her on got me excited.

[BeMuse]

Status? WTF... That’s a weird lens to look through.

[R4vedave]

It's about kink/taboo, about vulnerability, control, submission, and of course, pleasure.

[genericname85]

feels good to some. it's just a kink, that not everyone likes.