Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Attitudes towards sex continue to get more liberal. Once giving a blowjob was special or taboo but now everyone does it pretty much every time they have sex without thinking. It's normal and expected. Is anal the same now? Is it just part of sex and nothing usual, unexpected, or taboo? It feels like it is now.
Is anal sex normal and expected?
JessJJ Xper 6
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19 53I wish it was normal, but it definitely isn’t.
i think so yea
you do it?
@LooneySins yea
comfortable giving advice? or answering some questions? I posted some but you can also dm if you want.. your choice
@2facedfa1ry do u enjoy it?
Normal but not expected and should be prepared for
I may be older and old school, but I've never met a woman who wants anal sex., so it's definitely not expected.
Depends on the woman. My Ex preferred it.
I never saw anal as taboo tbh
It's more accepted but still not common and somewhat taboo.
I've always treated Anal as something special. It's a much more intimate form of sex, and I know that it takes a level of confidence and comfort that a lot of women want to work their way up to slowly.
It’s something that should be discussed and never expected unless an agreement has already been reached
Oh I hope so.
Would you give some tips on it?
Eventually yeah
If I don’t want vaginal intercourse, guys automatically think that I want anal intercourse.
What would you want?
@jessjj Usually try a hand job which ends up a BJ or if they really want intercourse I will let him do it anal
@jennz6 I’m not into anal at all, but it sure is nice how you are such a caring person & “pleaser.”
@Gagname yea I try to please
To me, I find it more of a special thing. Only if both partners agree and want to. Not everyone is into it.
I find it repulsive.
A girlfriend that doesn't like anal is like a boyfriend that doesn't have a car.
Anal sex to me is taboo and should not be expected. I just don't see any plesure for both especially the girl because it's painful.
No there's still people who don't like it or like it just depends on the person
And another repeater - at least once a week.
U don't just give any man ur butt hole
Unlike blowjobs anal can be dangerous. It's actually the most dangerous type of sex.
Why?
@Guardian45 There are bacertia in the anal cavity that are necessary in there, but are not good anywhere else in the body. So if you have small lesions on your penis or if you switch from the ass to the pussy, there can be problems. Also the walls of the anal cavity are not as firm as the walls of the vaginal cavity so there's a greater (still slight) possibility of tearing there.
First of all, NEVER switch from ass to pussy. ALWAYS switch from pussy to ass. Secondly, the dirtiest place on the human body is the mouth! You can catch thrush from a blowjob or worse.
If someone is tearing the anus, then they don't know what they're doing and should stop and learn.
@Guardian45 It's the lining of the large intestine, not the actual anus. I had a long discussion with a GI doctor about the dangers of anal, so that's what I was told. The idea that it can cause fecal incontinence is a lie. It typically doesn't do any damage, but a lot of girls feel pain from it.
Agreed. The anus, rectum and intestines are not made for rough sex.