Is anal something special for you and your partner, or is it pretty routine/nbd?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

For the last couple of years it has been routine for us. We do it more often than not. I always start in her vagina and then finish in her ass probably 60% of the time. If we have sex daily she needs a day or two in between to let her ass rest, but if it's been 2 or 3 days since we had sex I always do her ass.

Anal is something we have both learned to enjoy more and more so it's a mutual desire for us. She always has more intense orgasms during anal, and that's a bonus for both of us because there is nothing quite as hot as seeing her cum while I'm fucking her ass.

Anal is also a good method of birth control. She has an IUD, but her sister got pregnant with an IUD so we are a little paranoid and I never cum in her vagina without a condom, and I won't until we're ready to have kids. But I can do her ass without a condom and cum all I want.

summiter · Accepted Answer

I have tried anal twice with two previous girlfriends at their request. We used tons of lube (important) and sure I had a few good orgasms. However both girls said that they did not orgasm and that it was very uncomfortable. I prefer the front door any day! What about your thoughts?

chrissykerdock · Accepted Answer

not really as special as you think... all a guy has to do is finger you bend you over and they cum pretty quick from it... i never really get the lube treatment... i wear short skirts so i don't get that special treatment i guess.

Jessica405 · Accepted Answer

When I first got with my guy, we started having sex daily. Roughly once a week, we would end up having anal. It was always special for both of us. Now, it is not so frequent. Maybe once a month. Still as special, though.

ShellyB · Answer

It is not something I will do but everybody is different I could see how it could be special as far as commitment.

Chubbychick · Answer

My husband and I did it regularly before we had a baby. Not it's rare because every time is a quicky. Love it though

Varanus · Answer

Pretty routine, we both love it.

NotTacocaT6969 · Answer

It’s not something my partner and I would ever do because we’re not a gay couple.

purplepoppy · Answer

No more a deal than a bj

musicbrain5 · Answer

It’s not something I’m interested in doing, so no.

MrCommodore · Answer

I've never tried Anal sex, never had any desire to try it and no woman I ever dated has expressed a desire to try it.

mandyfire98 · Answer

It's special for me only in the sense of I'm not a huge fan of it but will have it just every once in a while.

SnowedIn · Answer

Sorta both. Touching, rimming are pretty routine. Very hot and erotic and intense but nbd. Toys, pegging, and "actual" anal is something special solely because we don't do it all the time and because there's more work and logistics involved.

bubblegunnn · Answer

Nah not my thing

mrmonogamous · Answer

My wife and I tried it once. She did not like it at all. I enjoyed the extreme tightness, but I can live without it.

boggboss · Answer

Not somthing we are into

jennyjenjen98 · Answer

It's pretty routine for me.

TwistedGinger · Answer

Definitely special but in a routine l kind of way, we do it sporadically around 3-4 per year so if it’s been over a month I or 2 since I let him, I let him have some fun

Derrimar · Answer

when I get very excited, I can end up in her ass... nt much logistic involved, but also because I dont go very deep, mostly only the head in, and for that, a little saliva is enough. When she is excited too, her ass get wet and open, so it is kind of easy.

Sometimes she is asking to come in her ass, thats also very exciting. When were younger, one routine we had often, was like this, I would lick her pussy and when she came I rolled her, I put som lube, stick it in her ass and fuck hard and deep. Now we dont do this anymore. It felt very special. Like we coul do everything without borders

TroyDT2 · Answer

I have no desire to use my appendage to roto-router a sewer line and not a single woman I have been with has ever expressed an interest in it, either.

Havthrills · Answer

It started with something special then became routine when I was with her. Now I guess it would be something special for a bit again.

Samantha_17 · Answer

I would say routine now. We got used to doing it so much it's part of our repertoire :)

BJP21 · Answer

Depends if your wired for it. Some people love others hate it.

Twalli · Answer

It's about 50% of our sex. I wouln'dt say it is routine, neither is vaginal. We usually don't decide on one or the other unitl we're invested in foreplay and sex will happen.