Is any man asexual?

[C2345]

Is there any guys on here who are asexual? Any guys that just don’t like sex?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been here a long time and I’ve known some full on asexual males here plus a bunch of low drive.

they exist but they’re rare. Off the top of my head maybe half the asexuals weren’t interested in dating at all. The other half were mildly but didn’t put a high priority on it. For all but the best looking young men, dating involved a lot of trying to impress girls, being rejected, trying to win them over and the asexual guys lacked the motivation to do that level of work.

I’d agree with what you hinted - there appear to be more asexual women then men at least anecdotally.

that said if you want an asexual partner they exist and since other asexual women aren’t aggressively seeking them out, if you do, is guess you could have success. But you should assume it will require active searching.

[C2345]

Relationships are so hard so I understand them not wanting a relationship. I have had to have sex even though I really don’t want to just to keep peace in my relationships. There are definitely more asexual women. The reason why is because more men enjoy sex then women. I just know it.

[Opinion Owner]

Possibly, but I don't think sex drive has all THAT much to do with sexual enjoyment on a physical level (though frustration and unsatisfactory sex can certainly dampen desire). Ultimately I suspect it comes down to the fact that we evolved to form romantic bonds primarily because it was helpful in raising children. This isn't to suggest people must feel this way or there's anything wrong with wanting different things. But I do think that its very common for men to feel sexual contact is really important to being in a relationship. Men who didn't feel that way through most of our evolution would have … raised someone else's children and died out of the gene pool. So it's just less common. A woman who wanted relationships and had sex because it was expected would have been more likely to have kids.

[C2345]

I feel like sex is really just for reproducing. There is no enjoyment to it for women (some women will disagree because they actually like sex but I am not that woman) only men. The only reason why it is enjoyable for men is so that they can spread their seed to conceive children.

[Opinion Owner]

Presumably both many men AND women enjoy it because reproduction is important from an evolutionary standpoint. But not all do. Which is fine. If you talk to the asexual men here, they tend to run into similar issues you do - partners frustrated at their lack of drive. I suspect it's easier for a woman like yourself to find men who will accept them just 'having sex for his benefit', and its' easier for men to find women who are okay with less sex. But generally most men or women aren't happy with either of those - they want their partner to actually want it too. I don't think you have a good understanding of why men or women who want sex, do, and that's fine if you're not trying to have a relationship with those who do. I can just observe 'you don't get it'. You don't need to. But their thinking isn't quite how you imagine it.

[ZackBan]

I believe asexual is a person who is sexually attracted to themselves only not someone who doesn't like sex.

Humans come straight out of the womb with sexual desires in them somewhere it's like a system made insure reproduction happens.
Now it's debatable how some turn out homosexual or bisexual but in both cases they still like sex.
Anyone who simply doesn't like sex needs to be looked at, not because it's wrong but because it's definitely caused by some childhood trauma

[C2345]

No childhood trauma here. I just don’t like sex.

[ZackBan]

That's very interesting. Can you think of a specific reason why? I know it's kind of an odd question with an intimate answer. If you don't wanna get into it here feel free to pm me. But I'm curious to know why would someone just not like sex.

[justsimpleguy]

Growing up I wasn't really interested in sex even though I was attracted to women.

[C2345]

Interesting. I mean I think men are attractive but I don’t like sex at all.

[justsimpleguy]

Have you tried it before and what about masturbating?

[justsimpleguy]

Have a look at this article:

www.puckermob.com/.../

[C2345]

Yes I have had many partners just don’t like sex. Yes I have been it’s really not that great.

[justsimpleguy]

Don't think I like sex either but don't think I'm asexual because some sexual things I like doing like masturbating. I think if you don't like doing nothing sexual at all best describes asexuality.

[justsimpleguy]

So would you say you're attracted to guys but don't like sex?

[Alexandrubaschet08]

nop.

[tasleen]

Tough to find such guys on social media 😁

[C2345]

I feel like it will be tough to find men who don’t like sex period. Lol

[tasleen]

Yeah... but different there will be many in real world

[C2345]

Maybe

[mario_with_no_luigi]

I’m sure they exist

[In_Trance]

I don't think so. Not unless there's a past trauma that's made them that way, such as abuse.

[JamesBlackDragon]

I real life im sure some guys are on here not sure

[Ritesh1234]

There was a guy who told me he was asexual. I dont know for sure if he is, but he claims he is

[Anonymous]

I am.

[C2345]

Are you a female or male? Can’t tell because it says anonymous. If female I am female too and I also don’t like sex.