Is anybody else afraid of having sex for the first time in a relationship?

Im terrified it’s often not what I expected at all

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  • Not scared but sometimes I have high expectations for guys that I like and they end up not meeting them so then I lose all feelings I could’ve felt 😭 and sometimes I’ll prolong the amount of time it takes for us to do all that bc I don’t want to stop liking him 😂

    • Yeah

    • That’s what I’m talkin bout

Most Helpful Guys

  • You mean, first time x each relationship.

    I honestly don't expect anything. Why? Well, I have no clue if I will ever have a romantic relationship again; but you can bet it will not be a LDR.

    From what I learned, it's simple as this:

    *If there is trust, if there is a healthy confidence at all levels: amazing sex.

    *If there is NOT trust, if there is no healthy confidence in general: terrible and disfunctional sex.

  • I think lots of people are scared the first time in a new relationship. What are they into? Are we compatible? Relax and be honest with your partner. Don't go along with something that you don't want to try. It'll work out. If he insists then your not compatible.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I wouldn't say afraid, but nervous. Everybody has different kins and preferences, and I wonder if we can make each other happy. My experiences usually work out. There's always going to be someone better though.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Yeah its crossed my mind but im more excited than afraid. I think its best to talk about what each one of you are into, i think if the sex doesn't go well there's ways to improve or if not maybe you and that person aren't sexually compatible.

  • Afraid is a bit too strong. Feeling anxious about your first time together is perfectly normal, and can actually enhance the experience.

  • I'd be nervous... performance anxiety.

  • Yeah. I have hang ups about my body so getting naked I front of someone new if terrifying. But quickly goes away, then I just hope we're compatible

  • No, let enjoy it.

  • I was never terrified of it except for the first time. i wasn;t really terrified but was very nervous.

  • I think most people have nerves when they're having sex with a new person for the first time.

  • Nah, you get around like I do and you don't think about it. In fact I say the less you think about it the better you end up being especially for a guy.

  • My first time with a virgin I was underwhelmed and grossed out because my girlfriend bled like a stuck pig. I was in gr 10 she was gr 9.

  • If you would rather not, then don't.

    You do realise that intercourse is not the only option... right?

  • The only thing I'm worried about is if we are sexually incompatible which is usually why I have THAT talk beforehand.

  • I'm afraid of it too and I haven't even done it yet lmao

  • I was concerned when I was a virgin. What are you afraid of?

    • Because I had incidents it was wack or… I like only the sex lol

    • Oh you had incidents. Lol sex is complex at times yk

    • What? Why the sarcasm

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  • Yes and I have never had sex before

  • What is there to be afraid of?

  • Be nervous both want to impress. Just relax have fun. Doesn't have be all serious

  • I love the first time! It's fun not knowing what is going to happen in my opinion

  • No, I like being cruel in terms of sex

  • Was never afraid of that, always wanted it so bad

  • Not afraid, just nervous about whether we'll be compatible and I'll be able to make it feel good for her.

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