Is anyone else tired of the gender divide questions on here?

[Anonymous]

Do you notice a lot that? People trying to pit men and women against each other? Or straight people against gays and stuff like that? Like they have an agenda?

[whirled_up_girl]

I have noticed that, I've only been on gag since September but it seems like I've noticed it more recently than I when I first started. I'm sure what the agenda would be other than they have a strong opinion about the opposite gender and want others to validate their opinion 🤷‍♀️it is getting tiring though.

[Asker]

Yes I think haters come on here and some people always have gender divide questions or polls.

[endoftheline]

Yeah! :/

[SecretsofKB]

I am.

More often then not, it's just misplaced frustration, but sometimes it's actual hatred.

That I'll never understand.

[Asker]

Yes you're right.

[OlderAndWiser]

When I hear guys bashing women, I try to encourage them to retire from the dating arena. It's one less man in the competition.

[Asker]

It's on both sides on here though.

[OlderAndWiser]

I understand. And, quite often, I observe that if every member of the opposite sex treats you the same way, the problem usually lies in what you are doing to elicit that response. However, butthurt people don't really want to hear any of that.

[Asker]

I'm talking about people that try to divide others. Sure if you are doing something everyone is against I can understand that.

[OlderAndWiser]

When someone tries to recruit me to join their hate army, I just observe that I have never had those problems with women and would prefer to continue dating and having relationships.

[ushagomez]

I thinking practicing how to multiply is way better than dividing

[Emiku]

Yeah, I'm tired of it too. Men who want to whine and complain about women, even though, they're doing the same things themselves, but worse. Those men are disgusting and they know it, hypocrites.

[Asker]

Yes but women do it too. It's on both sides.

[Emiku]

It only matters who does it more. It's obviously the men doing the most complaining from what I've seen so far.

[Asker]

I don't think either side should do it, but I understand how you feel.

[Emiku]

I'm not being a whiney brat, I'm giving my opinion. Don't misunderstand me.

[Djaay]

Emiku... Please , just spare us. Your still dividing as you coment.

[Emiku]

I'm not dividing anyone

[Djaay]

Should rewind your comment and re-read it. Segregation is division.

[Emiku]

I didn't bring up segregating men. All I was doing is bringing up the hypocrisy.

[Djaay]

Through being bias

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Agreed, the lack of accountability and acknowledging it’s not about the blame game seems very immature

[Heartache0405]

Do I notice a lot of gender divide questions on here? Yes, yes I do. Both men and women receive hate from each other. Women seem to think they receive it more than the men because they don’t believe men can be oppressed so they think it’s ok to do. Men I think are just defending themselves from accusations and are angered to the point of lashing out.

[Gwenhwyfar]

I agree with you though I don’t know if it’s intentional

[Asker]

I think some of it is, men haters, women haters, anti gay, all of that.

[Gwenhwyfar]

You could be right

[Asker]

I'm sure I am, lol

[Djaay]

Oh its very intentional... shall i go further? Asker , absolutly right.

[anon1903]

Some of them are so hateful they don't even make sense. Some others are clickbait. Arguments are fun I guess, but not questions that go in circles.

[Asker]

Thanks for your reply :)

[MrtoddsWildRide]

@subarugirl
Wanna hold up an olive branch with me on this one and agree that the gender divide is pointless?

[Subarugirl]

Well if it didn’t exist it would be pointless but unfortunately it does, just like racial division and homophobia. All go which very prominent currant social issues.

[Subarugirl]

*all of which are

[Asker]

@Subarugirl You're one of the ones on here that likes to create it with your posts everyday. Either you are feminist with an agenda or you hate men for some reason.

[Subarugirl]

Neither actually, how are issues like the gender divide supposed to be addresses if the issues causing it aren’t addressed? Nothing gets resolved by sweeping it under the rug.

[Asker]

@Subarugirl You come on here all the time to create gender divide, you don't have to perpetuate that. You're not resolving anything, you're just trying to create a divide and you don't like men for some reason. I'm not the only one that can see that.

[MrtoddsWildRide]

@Subarugirl You disappoint me. I know... you don't care. I'm washing my hands of you. Enjoy your pointless hatred.

[Subarugirl]

If I didn't like men I wouldn't have married one, nor would I have chosen to work in a male dominated industry for the past 6 years. I dislike some men, just as I dislike some women, though my dislike for a person as to do with their words and actions, not the genitalia between their legs. What people should do is put their selves in someone else's shoes and try to see where the other person is coming from.

[Asker]

@Subarugirl Then stop posting your gender divide posts. You are one of the toxic women on here creating the divide. I do see how other people feel, it's called "empathy" so if you were a man, you would not like to see your posts all the time. Admit it, you hate men.

[sirderpsalot123]

I'm tired of it everywhere, not just here.

[noohair]

And it is always a binary choice.
Digital dementia at work.
Good point. AAAAA+++++.

[OddBeMe]

Sure, but tbh, they’re already against each other. It’s human. I would prefer not gender bullshit to go away and people just act like they want.

[Jouth]

Yeah like @Subarugurl I really like some of her content, but a good chunk of it is just fuel to start flame wars.

[Jouth]

@subarugirl

[Anonymous]

Both sides do it, but I see most of it coming from guys.

Why are all women sluts?

Why do all women hate men?

Why do all women cheat?

Why do all women just want your money?

Why do all women have high body counts?

Yes, this is intentional. Their agenda is to stir up trouble, and then sit back and laugh while all the mice get worked up over it. It's their way to get the attention they crave.

Yesterday I replied to : "Why do all women hate men?"

GAG deleted my answer. I was being easily as ridiculous as the asker, so I got removed for spamming, but the spam question was safe and sound.

[Anonymous]

Welcome to society in 2022

[Anonymous]

It's annoying to see questions that are obviously written by someone with an agenda. They seem to often come from people on the far right politically. It would be appreciated if GAG removed these kinds of questions and blocked repeat offenders.

[Asker]

Yes women that hate men, men that hate women, stuff like that all the time. All men this, all women that.

[Opinion Owner]

Agreed.