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No judging, I'm just curious as to why you are?
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14 25Nope, not at all
sweet :)
I am and don't want any man to touch me or joke about homosexuality.
Maybe you're uncomfortable with getting close to guys?
No I had a man try to molest me when I was 11
That is terrible! I am so sorry about that, I can understand why you wouldn't want that then. Have you tried seeking help?
No but I would prefer they didn't do things in public like gossip about their sex lives which is something too many gay guys do. I say the same about heterosexuals.
Other than that, they can do whatever they want.
No, i don't hate homosexuals or think they are worth less than straight people but i do think marriage is between a man and a woman!
But then that sort of contradicts what you just said?
No, just because i don't support gay marriage it does not mean i hate gay people, i think everyone is equal But i believe marriage is meant for a man and woman only
But then they're not equal, correct?
Maybe not equal in the sense of marriage, but i do think everyone is worth equally much.
What are you basing your idea of marriage on, for the record?
I follow the Bibles view on marriage, since i believe that it was God who originally invented marriage.
Firstly, marriage was around since well before Christian times, and existed in many faiths outside the abrahamic ones. Secondly, if we're following the biblical definition of marriage, then it isn't necessarily one man, one woman anyhow. After all, there are TONS of examples of polygamy in the bible. Other rules of marriage according to the bible: considered valid only if the bride was a virgin. If she was not, then she needed to be executed (Dt. 22:13-21). Also, do you think divorce ought to be illegal as well? Marriages could only take place if the spouses were believers (Ezra 9:12). And if the husband were to die before having children, then his brother was required to marry the widow. If he refused, he had to forfeit one of his sandals, be spit on by the widow, and change his name to “House of the Unshoed” (Dt. 25:5-10).
haHA, thats why you can't base your views off the bible
If you actually studied the bible better you would know that that is a part of the old law, and that it is no longer viable. As for polygamy in the bible God actually hated it and considered it a sin, which you also would know if you cared to read the bible properly. I believe that God established marriage and that Adam and Eve were the first married couple on earth, which makes other religions marriages irrelevant (since other religions didn't exist then). Explaining this to a non-believer is next to impossible though, and i am not expecting you to understand. I do however expect that you use common sense and look at where the world has gone because of the homosexual community. If you or anyone else wants to further discuss this topic feel free to send me a message!
Where has it gone because of the homosexual community? Did things get more... Gay?
No, but firstly, freedom of opinion has taken a big hit. It's no longer acceptable to have an opinion against gays because you instantly become a homophobic. Secondly the many 1000 year tradition of a man and woman making a commitment to each other (marriage) has been thrown in the dirt, this i not only because homosexual marriage, but since gays started marrying more people has also married animals and even houses&cars. Thirdly both the gays and the supporters of gay marriage has spit God in the face by taking something wonderful that he created and twisting it into something bad and ungodly. The list goes on but the way i see it, nothing good has ever, or will ever come out of the homosexual community& marriage.
You could just as easily say freedom of opinion has taken a hit because of non-white people, since it's no longer acceptable to be racist. And what tradition of marriage? Again, marriage didn't originate with Christianity. Many different cultures have had different forms of marriage with different rules.
There might be different types of marriages in different religions, but the marriage we use today is definitely a christian marriage. We get married in church, a priest takes care of the ceremony, and we even say "according to God's holy ordinance" in our vows! So i think it is pretty obvious that the form of marriage gays want to enter is the christian type. I don't know about your country but at least in Finland we offer a different type of commitment to homosexuals that want to be together, it grants them the same right as a married couple but without the church ceremony and the official "married" title. Still, the gays are trying (and are going to succeed) to get the rights to marry the christian way. And this is what bothers me, not only are they living out their homosexuality, but they also have to destroy the marriage that God created. So after all this, it only seems to me like gays are insecure about their sexuality and are trying to get confirmation by Christians, and God.
I don't give a fuck if you gay or not. Do you. Who am I to judge, but if we are friends and your gay, don't be trying to kiss or flirt with a man by me or else I'm dipping lmao. Idw see that shit.
well then if we were friends i wouldn't want you kissin or trying to flirt with a woman or else "I'm dipping"
On the other hand if your asking if I think being gay is wrong and consider me a homophobe by that, then yes I'm homophobic.
Oh I see
No I'm not afraid of my home
1. I think homosexual activity is wrong because it goes against nature.
2. I don't hate gay people, just the activity they sometimes engage in.
Does this make me homophobic?
Yes, effectively. Though to a lesser degree than people who hate gay people directly. But still yes.
Okay. Then I don't have problems being homophobic. Its just a socially constructed pejorative word, anyway. Its not like I am trying to harm anyone. It's just a belief.
But they do exactly what other animals on earth is doing so I don't see how it's against nature
Literally every species on earth exhibits homosexual behaviors except one, loll
I guess it depends on how you define "natural." Most animals don't engage in anal sex. A small percentage do. To me, that doesn't make it "natural." What percentage of chimps, our closest ancestor, actually engage in anal sex? I still don't think its natural.
Nope I am bi
Yes i am homophobic
I'm not, I've had some great times with gay guys... BUt some years ago when I was 11, another boy tried to rape me and I never told anyone
Is it homophobic to be repulsed while seeing two male kissing?
Maybe, depends on how you feel about them in general. It may also mean you are uncomfortable with kissing
I am pretty much comfortable with kissing women, thank you for your concern. In general, I do not give a single attention. what they do do not concern me as long as they do not go judging me, or saying what I should think or believe, or speak in my behalf. You also cannot force me to have a reaction that I feel natural just because it does not suit what YOU feel should be the good reaction, and label it as homophobic, that would be an oppression of thinking.
I'm not hating?
I never talked about hate.
whatever dude, I don't like arguing
but you asked a question here, and even begun to have a discussion here. You cannot just say things and then just back off and say you do not like arguing when things do not turn like you expected, or something un-predicted.
sounds like you really need one then :) but I don't like discussing things with someone who will get mad at me for suggesting that you may not be comfortable with kissing. I don't even know you so how would I know. Suck it up bro
Well, I am not your "bro". I do not see any sign of madness in my sayings, when I remained calm, using only logic. It is quite easy and simple to label me as somebody that would get mad, or angry, just to justify, again, the will for you not to enter in a reasonable and logical discussion. That entire process would be, however, be labelled as victimization.
I'm not scared or have hate towards homosexuals, however, I do find them to be weird and slightly annoying with the flamboyant personalities.
Well that's just a stereotype! Although true that SOME may be like that.
So far ALL that I've met have for the sterotype almost perfectly.
Oh? Maybe the ones that don't fit the stereotype are hiding lol
And of course people are down voting me because you no one is tolerant of anything that doesn't follow the "mainstream" views nowadays.
I don't think that's the reason. It's probably more to do with how people don't think stereotypes are good.
If the only thing I've observed is the sterotypes, then is it really a stertotype any longer or an experience instead? Oh well, I did support gay marriage. But I think I'm going to stop it, since y'all seem to be such hate filled pricks. I'm not supporting anything that shuns others.
fucking hell. "I'm gonna stop supporting human rights because some dude called me out on the internet! Wahhhhhhhhh!!!"
Also, if you honestly think the people supporting gay marriage are less hateful than those against it, I don't know what universe you're living in.
*More hateful. typing is hard and I don't know what I'm doing, obviously.
I dont like to call myself homophobic but I dont particuly like gays and never have and so has my whole family
guess its personal preference right
That honestly is a little homophobic. It's not as bad as it could be, but it's still homophobia.
I think the word "Homophobe" is a buzzword created by intolerant homosexuals and their fans to label everyone who does not go out of their way to like them.
Some people are not afraid of homosexuals at all, they just believe what they are doing is wrong, or against nature.
Thought police use the word over and over in a feeble attempt to sway people's gut feelings about it. It's really pathetic.
I don't think homosexuals would create a word to be afraid of them haha
Thinking homosexuality is wrong is homophobic too. Homophobic doesn't mean afraid of homosexuals; there are several reasons why claiming it does would be idiotic. What it means is bigoted against homosexuals. And not respecting someone for something they can't change is certainly bigoted.
Saying homosexually is wrong is not homophobic, thought nazi. If you gagged when you saw someone eating human feces, you gag because it is wrong. Not because you are afraid of shit. You think you have all the answers, don't you. You'll figure out sooner or later than you don't.
Homophobia isn't the fear of gay people, it's also the aversion to or hatred of gay people. When someone gags because they see someone eating feces, it's because they have an aversion to human feces because it's gross. Learn to use a dictionary.
Thanks for proving my point on all counts. PHOBIA is a fear of something. Most people consider gay sex to be GROSS. I learned what a phobia is from a dictionary. Thanks again.
And what of homophobia? The etymology of a word doesn't determine its meaning. Do you think American football is where people kick a sphere? Do you think hemophilia is the love of blood? Do you think all words where the meaning has changed over time must still mean what they originally did?
I can't believe you are still talking. I'm not the one who suggested a dictionary. Unfortunately I don't believe there are too many books that can help you at this point. The hard knocks of life will be your teacher from now on. Remember, cipher42, you can be wrong. It is possible. I hope you take the hard lessons life is going to deal you and learn form them, not shun them.
Look, just find homophobia in any decent dictionary you like. I will be legitimately impressed if you can find one that agrees with your definition. And since the dictionary is what we use to determine the meaning of words, you are undoubtedly wrong if you are disagreeing with it on what a word means. By the way, good job evading the questions there. Sorry to break it to you, but using ad hominem isn't a valid strategy. Will you give me a rational answer or won't you?