Is appreciating another girl's legs bad?

Long story short I have a girlfriend, she's great.

But we have a mutual friend who comes over to ours occasionally, she has great legs and feet which I like to look at and my girlfriend knows this, she said it wouldn't threaten our relationship but she isn't overly keen on it.

My question is, so long as it is harmless in the sense that I just look and never goes further than that, and it isn't a sexual attraction, nothing beyond just thinking they are nice to look at, is that okay? Or is it something I should be putting serious work into to try and get over?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • it isn't respecting your girlfriend when your being overly interested in another girls legs. That said, it can be an unconsious action to enjoy and find sexy or stimulating a well dressed girl and there's a fine line that can be walked to aprechiate a good looking woman respectfully that isn't your partner.

    One tip I can offer is, everything is good as long as your girlfriend always feels like she better in your eyes and making the looking part of an overall compliment of her choice of dress. Though if your not deeply skilled socially your safest bet is to, every time you find your noticing some other girl, look at YOUR girlfriend and remember why you love her and why she's sexy to you. That way, even if you DO naturally look at another girl your girlfriend will ulimately associate it with you 'digging' on her looks.

  • Its fine if everyone is fine with it... my girlfriend has two sisters and they are all very close, i seen... bits of both of them by accident and as parts of jokes and its all fine... but ultimately we are all human and we all appreciate things that look good. I think its perfectly normally

Most Helpful Girl

  • You have eyes. You know what you find aesthetically pleasing to the eye. Why is that bad? As long as you’re faithful it’s no issue. I think your girlfriend might be insecure about her own legs.

    • Thank you, I am faithful and always will be, and I do compliment my partner quite a bit, she may be insecure about it. But I would never take things further than just looking

    • But you need to think about her feelings when you talk about another girl. You know she doesn’t like that you find other girls prettier (or that’s why I think)

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  • It's fine to notice them but then move on...

  • I think its fine as long as you're not making suggestive comments to her in front of your girlfriend. Makes me wonder though, if this friend senses this and does it on purpose.

    • You mean knows I like to look? It's possible, and isn't the first time she's been like that. When we were at hers once she decided to stretch out on the sofa in just a t shirt and panties with her legs toward me. That said she has a boyfriend so unless she likes to tease I doubt she would purposefully do that kind of stuff

    • Yes, that's what I mean. And I think she did that with full intent to tease you. She's disrespecting your girlfriend when does that.

    • I appreciate that, I dont get why she would be like that though, she's loyal to her partner and I'm loyal to mine

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  • Have fun looking at her legs but not in front of your girlfriend

  • Looking at other people is fine. You aren't blind. As long as all it involves is looking

  • If you have a girlfriend, why are you looking at other women?

    Same with you ladies. If you have a boyfriend, why in the world, are you looking, at other men?

  • How would you feel if your girlfriend was appreciating another guy's body? Is that ok?

    • I guess you're right, she's said that kind of stuff about celebrities but not about people we know so not sure how I would feel. Get a bit awkward when she's saying good things about her ex but I guess it also depends how far she'd go with those interests

  • If you stay faithful it doesn't matter. You are geared to notice women, this other girl is a woman, end of story.

  • As longs as you have that self restraint to not go further (seems like you do), it should be fine