Is asking for just oral unfair?

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JPrez · Accepted Answer

I would say if it's discussed with plenty of time in advance. Think it would be unfair to meet up with the guy and no advance warning and say "I just want oral and I gotta leave" or something similar. What's the guy supposed to do if he's hard and expecting sex. Instead discuss in advance and say, "I'd like you to consider just giving me oral one time and that's it, I'm not in the mood for something else". Dude will probably say "ok" no problem and "maybe you do the same for me one time".

RemoErdosain · Accepted Answer

I get the thrill of sometimes getting just oral, but that means that at least I get the same benefit at another time. Otherwise, yes, it's unfair, but some cucks like the one down there might be good with it. Of course it all comes down to whether you want a slave or a boyfriend

DeeDeeDeVour · Accepted Answer

"One-sided" only? Well, he's so ready & eager to give you the shaft but you're suggesting that he put it away without even reciprocating for his efforts to give you the pleasure that you're getting from him.

Commander_Red · Accepted Answer

You deserve to have someone ravage your downstairs girl, but you gotta be able to return the favor. Is there a reason you want it to be one sided?

DevilishDarling · Answer

Can't really say, I tend to believe in equal affection and if it isn't happening I would demand it singularly until it feels a bit more reciprocal

Zannika02 · Answer

Lol that's cold

Katie1964 · Answer

Not if it is reciprocated or 69.

Red_Arrow · Answer

Friends with benefits gives benefits to both participants. Asking that it only be of one type is fair, but both sides must get that type.

ohshee · Answer

Wait who's asking him or you

ZackBan · Answer

I mean yeah... imagine getting someone off without getting off yourself sounds unfair to me. And i realize many times only guys finish during sex but I alwyas try to even things out if I end up outlasting her

CalmYourTits · Answer

Eh, as long as you do the same once in awhile. Just let know ahead of time.

Thatasianlove16 · Answer

No not at all lol

AndyOh · Answer

Yeah you might want to make that clear for the next friends with benefits.  A lot of guys get off having a girl go down on them.

slatyb · Answer

There is no such thing as an unfair ask. Ask for what you want.

The_Inquisitor · Answer

It depends on the person, I can give 1 sided oral but your gonna have to at least stroke me off a couple times just to show you care. I can do most of the work my self but I would say that you have to at minimum at least stroke me a couple times to help me help you

TadCurious · Answer

I would say no, it's not unfair depending on the context of the situation and relationship. Although it's not good to "keep score," on balance there should be reciprocity in giving and receiving pleasure including oral pleasure. But I can understand a situation where one or both partners are comfortable with mutual and reciprocal oral sex but not intercourse, and the sexual arrangement is for oral and manual pleasuring of each other.

Don-__-Don · Answer

No, it's not. How does unfairness even play a part in that?

Avicenna · Answer

Yeah, it is. When I have sex, I don’t want to stop there.

sacajawea · Answer

It is kind of selfish way to go, however something, may be better than nothing at all. Depends on how he feels about it. Maybe he's tired and only has the energy to give. Ask him and find out.

Agape93 · Answer

Nope

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

No! I used to do that all the time. What kind of fae are you? 😊 I’m a sidhe.

chriscdi · Answer

yea if you aren't getting it back

Makeushiver · Answer

If your giving it you should be getting it. Of course I love going down on women so my opinion might be a minority

worldscolide · Answer

It is if you dont return the favor.

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