Is bad to masterbate before having sex? And or finger yourself?

I masterbate and I get my vagina ready to have sex is that bad?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Not bad! ..but I'm sure the guy you were going to have sex with would love to watch you do it.. And if he found out you were doing that in private and didn't tell him, it's possible he could be offended.. so I'd bring it into the bedroom if I were you.. it's totally hot and I can almost guarantee he'd love it.

  • There is no real "bad' as long as every one enjoys it and no one gets hurt or is forced to do anything against their will. I assume you mean wet when you say ready. If your lover knows what he's doing, you shpould be plenty wet. Lube always fine.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Relax! There's nothing bad or weird about doing any of those things.

  • I sure hope not! It's a great way to start the fun.

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  • I guess not...nah not a problem.

  • do you do it in front of your guy? or in private? It isn't bad either way. It just would make him a lot happier and be a lot more fun if you did it while he watched...

  • Not really

  • Nope. I can't see how this would ever be a bad thing!

  • Naw. Your boyfriend is doing much worse. He's masturbating while fantasizing about you and your friend. So take it easy.

  • Definitely not. That can and should be a fun part of foreplay with your boyfriend.

  • Nope! It's pre-heating the oven! I highly recommend it.

  • Why are you doing it is my question?

  • as long as you still can perform, yeah its good

  • no its fine

  • No way! That would definitely turn me on, watching u play with urself but I would have 2 help u out by eating u out or giving u a finger or two! Then make u cum & then have sex! ;-)