Is being facefucked really as bad as it seems?

I'm into rough sex in general and blowjobs too so I have been thinking recently about trying facefucking out, I can deepthroat pretty well on my own pace etc however I'm not sure about when im not in control. I have tried this a long time ago with a guy I slept with once and he was really forceful and I didn't really enjoy it because I was choking etc. However now I feel it won't be like that. I've read the thing on here and online and most women hate it, is it really as degrading rather submissive? I'm into submissive but not being degraded. And anything in general to expect?
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  • Its only degrading if you make it degrading honestly on today's society social norm make anything to do with sex seem like a bad thing especially for women but you seem sweet fun and very open in the bed room which a lot of women are afraid to do so just give it a try and see if you like it enjoy yourself and just have fun with it besides who gonna see you in your own bedroom besides the guy to judge if its degrading or not. Its just you and i personally don't think its degrading so good luck do your research and be safe.

    • Thank you that's really nice to hear from a guy your age too! Some respect and maturity and a great answer thank you

    • No problem good luck 🙂

    • Thank you :)

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  • It depends entirely on the woman. As a submissive, I suspect that if you can relax and go with the flow that you'll find facefucking fun. You're gonna choke--that's part of the point. When you choke, the spasms of your throat feel amazing on his cock. The gag reflex only lasts about 2 seconds so just hang in and it'll pass.

    • Sorry, but the "You're gonna choke - that's the part of the point." made my boner go away. LOL. Personally - I like the reverse of this: when a woman pulls my face hard into her lady bits as she is cumming! THAT friends is what it is all about!

    • @humor_me I call that her becoming the aggressor which is great but isn't facefucking.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I like it, not the feel of it (if I'm going to choke I'd rather know it's in my power to stop it) but the mentality.

    I've never met a guy who does it for more than just a couple seconds though. And my throats never been hurt more than just a little soreness for about a half hour.

    • It gives you a sore throat?

    • Usually not, but the guys who've done it with me have always been gentle, never really jackhammered away like they do in porn. (which I'm grateful for) It was mostly just one guy who really likes being deepthroated who went a little harder than I'm used to, that's all. Plus my gag reflex is pretty sensitive so I was tensing up more than I should've too.

    • Hmm okay then I didn't know that so thank you for pointing that out! Really appreciated

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  • Needs a lot of communication and trust. First time I did it I ended up having to see a doc because of damage to my throat!

    • How id he manage to do that much damage?

    • @BaileyisDarcy it wasn't like loads of damage but I was pretty croaky after for a while. Mum thought I had a throat infection and insisted on taking me which was awkward haha. He was just really forceful with it and we didn't really do it sensibly

    • that's pretty hot! it feels awesome on our d**ks when we slide it deep down a hot chick's throat and it makes us feel dominant

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  • Well just be careful you don't get a couple of black eyes during 69 (with his balls smacking hard against your eye sockets)! LOL...

    I think the vagina is more suited to 'rough play' than the face is.

  • It's only degrading if you put it in that context. What's degrading to one person, isn't at all degrading to another. It depends on your own boundaries and kinks. Definitely try it, and remember to ease into it, just like with anything.

  • Never done it, never been done it

  • If it’s some stranger it may seem a little degrading. If it’s your SO? A pre face fucking discussion would reaffirm his appreciation for you wanting to please him. He needs to know how rough he can be. It’s not called face love making.

  • it feels awesome sliding it deep down a hot chick's throat. you would definitely choke due to my length and thickness but it's no big deal

  • It's fun try it

  • I'll let a girl answer this one.

  • If you like rough sex, most women do, you'll love it. I am a huge fan of it. I like watching it throb in your throat. 😈

  • Nah it's a turn on

    • we like well behaved chicks

    • the deeper the better

  • Some women handle it better than others. If it works for you, great. If not, do something else.