Girls, Is big bulge an issue for girls in Lycra?

[Henry58]

Hi there. I do a lot of cycling, running and gymming. I find wearing Lycra tights so comfy but I am very large an show a lot. Been wearing black or darker Colours mostly, because white shows greatly. My lady cycle friend took one which she sent to me yesterday. I was shocked looking at pic😳 I don’t mind this and has been doing it for years. Is it offensive for the girls and woman around me?

[SueShe]

Only those with a dirty mind and those that look at people's crotch seem to notice a bulge whereas those that look at a person in the eyes or face could not care less.

I believe that men make such a fuss about their penile attachment and my feeling is that they want women to notice it. I don't know why guys create a problem where there is none.

When I look at a person to assess this person, my look goes to his/her eyes and eyes only. I am not interested in the crotch area. Most girls feel the same. It is an uninteresting area but you guys actually want us to look at it.

[Henry58]

Thanks, because I got words thrown my way yesterday for the first time in years. That unsettled me a bit and started feeling a bit self aware. That’s why I’m posing question. Appreciate honest answer from you🤗

[SueShe]

Don't let others dictate your behavior. It was okay till now and it's not because someone made a remark that you should feel insecure. You cannot help it, so make the best out of it.

[Henry58]

🤗🤗

[SueShe]

Thanks for the MHO

[InYourHead]

Nah it's fine. It's natural. I have no issue with it.

[Henry58]

Thanks😍

[Anonymous]

Yeahhh...

[Anonymous]

Nobody cares about your bulge.