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Is "blowjob" really that common?

I'm pretty introvert so I haven't dated many guys, only 3, last 2 guys I was with never asked for blowjob. It wasn't even something to talk about was us.

But this guy I', currently dating is kind of forcing me to give him a blowjob, he says it's normal and everyone does it. And the way he asks for it is really weird, he always says, "I like my girls on their knees".
It is clear that he thinks a girls getting on her knees is "submissive position" and he is in dominant one.
So, it is normal to give blowjobs? Or is my current boyfriend mentally unstable?
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  • No a blow job is pretty normal now days. While you may think being on your knees is a submissive position in his eyes in time being on your knees will be a position of power for you. I say in time because everyone has to get familiar with their partner and also get comfortable in their blow job style of giving. After awhile With proper eye contact, mouth and tongue motion, you will have a lot of power over him. You will be making his knees weak, eyes roll, and begging you for more!! He be like putty in your hands 😃

  • Extremely common! And fun. But he can’t force you either!!! Break up with him if he’s doing that and you don’t like it.

    • It's not that I don't like to try, it's just the way he asks for it. And yeah, if he'll continue to force me I will dump him.

    • I totally agree with you

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  • giving a blowjob is very normal... and giving it on your knees is a good idea this way it will be just a blowjob... often i'm willing to give a blowjob but not sex by any means so if you get the chance to get on your knees for him then do it... if you wear short dresses he's bound to get a boner so your kidding yourself if you think a blowjob won't be needed... i'm not offended if a guy asks for one... often i give him credit... not that every guy who asks gets one but i understand why they ask... and it's very normal so don't think he's mentally unstable.

  • Not mentally unstable, but completely obnoxious. Why do you put up with this behavior?

    It's only NORMAL if you WANT TO DO IT! If you don't, DON'T! UGH.

  • No it’s not, and he shouldn’t force you to do anything you don’t want to do, of feel uncomfortable with it. So if he’s forcing you to do things you don’t like, stay apart from him. He’s nuts and don’t deserve you. The world has much more better guys than this one. So don’t be afraid and tell him what you think about it and if he respects you, he’ll quit acting like that, but if he continues acting that bad then throw him away to the nearest trash can and find someone much better than him.

  • A blowjob is common, yes. It does depend on the girl, if she likes do give them, but they are daily normal.
    However, demanding them like your guy does, that is not ok. It is very douchebag behaviour and degrading.

  • Yes it's common. Those last two guys were probably being too polite to ask, but I guarantee they expected one.

    Expectation does not mean it must be done of course, this guy has no right to try and force you. He may just enjoy being dominant and it's like a game to him, where he doesn't intend to offend you. Discuss it with him, and make it clear you don't appreciate his attitude. If he keeps it up, dump his ass.

  • Forcing is not an option, ditch him now or tell him not to fucking force or make you.

    cocktail sticks and penis work well.

    yes blow jobs are lovely but are freely given

  • Lol, your boyfriend is probably completely normal. He might be a bit dominant, but trust me: that is fun too

    My boyfriend is dominant

  • Blowjobs are normal but asking for them like that sounds like he is unstable especially if u feel he is forcing you just say no.

  • It is a common sexual act however you have every right to say no. You don’t have to doing anything sexual unless you want to. If you say no and he tried to force you then it is in fact rape. As for his words he my be into dirty talk and or bdsm as a dom that or he is a creepy dickbag and you should probably leave him

  • Mutual consent is the issue. If he's trying to force you and you don't want to perform oral on him you have two options. Either find a different guy who respects you or stay with this guy but remind him you have teeth. Not necessarily using words.

  • 1/3 girls I date or more give me a rimjob. I'd say a blowsky is pretty common.

  • Yes, I think pretty common among younger people now.
    *Some guys look at it as life imitating porn... a dominance submission and even humiliation thing. This is not good for you and you should not tolerate it. Never be forced or coerced into it.
    *Some girls seem to look at it as an ice breaker for new relationships and it actually can cripple their progress. Do not offer or accept a request for fellatio until a guy has given you (or you have declined an offer of) cunnilingus.
    *Fellatio is an excellent approach to foreplay. The pleasure and psychological lift can get a guy hard and ready for intercourse in short minutes.
    *Fellatio is an acquired skillset and can be restful and satisfying when given therapeutically. Many sexual relationships center of giving and receiving fellatio and cunnilingus with intercourse a brief diversion.

  • Yep, just like "Union dues"

  • Are you a human

    • lol of course.

    • Oh really? I can't believe that

  • Be amased how wide spread it is.

  • To be honest I think it is. I know all girls don't blow, but a lot ( like me) go down without a guy even saying anything. If you want to give him a blowjob then tell him you will but make it clear you won't be on your knees.

    • @missyj9876 do u do it bc u like it or just bc u know the guy will love it?

  • It's like a job, almost everybody has one and you are automatically less popular if you don't.

  • It is common.

  • For me, not. I don't like it.

  • You were dating nice guys or they just didn't like or have the balls to ask for a BJ. You should never be forced, because that ruins the experience and yes, he loves being dominant.

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