Is cuddle a code word for sex?

I’ve been talking to a guy for the past few days and he told me that he wanted a relationship. He even asked me out on a date when I get back in town. He mentioned he liked to cuddle and mentioned it a couple times last night. Is this a sign that he really just wants sex?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Depends. If y'all haven't met and he offers to cuddle on as a first date then probably yes. He's hoping it leads to sex. If y'all are in a relationship and he asks to cuddle then probably just wants to cuddle.

    Have y'all talked about sex? He might be beating around the bush to see if you are open to sex early on in the relationship.

    These are not hard and fast rules. Everyone is different.

    You seem to like this guy. Go for the ride and see where he takes you. If he asks to sleep with you tell him no. Make clear boundaries for yourself and for him. Don't do anything you aren't comfortable with.

  • If i said to a girl i wanted a cuddle it would mean a cuddle... i guess every one is different... cuddles are great... the Welsh even have their own word for that special type... a Cwtch

Most Helpful Girls

  • For us cuddle has no relation with sex. We do it daily. I guess cuddling is a sign of love and care for me.

  • Not necessarily but sex isn’t far from his mind though.

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  • That's what it means when my husband says it lol 🤣

  • Last I heard cuddle was code word for cuddle.

  • most likely

  • I think he wants to cuddle but he may hope that the cuddling leads to sex as well

  • cuddle can lead to a snuggle, a snuggle can lead to boinking

    • Boinking, sir or ma'am I think you've just done a good

  • yes it is. Most guys hope cuddle sessions lead to sex

  • Cuddling can lead sex, but we were together cuddling is cuddling/fondling.

  • Could eventually be depending on how
    Aggressive you are with each other

  • generally

  • I'm sure it is for some people.