Is deep romantic love only for the rare lucky few?

I’m almost 28 and I’ve sexted with guys anonymously, I’ve talked to some of those guys as friends of sorts, but I never find love. I’ve never been able to share I love yous with a guy, I’ve never been able to do lovey-dovey things with a guy. I’m still a virgin, but I don’t even care about that as much since I can just masturbate. I just wish I had experienced strong, reciprocated romantic love by now. I’ve tried to find it a couple of times through guys I sexted, but it never works. I feel like I’m unlovable at times, but I also feel like that type of love doesn’t really exist. Most people that are in relationships seem to settle.
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  • I'm not sure.
    I was definitely in Love with my ex-wife and at least 2 other women.
    Sometimes I think romantic love is something that's easier to experience if you're in desperate need of it, or if you're girl crazy like I was.
    My life basically revolved around my past relationships and I did not want to live without them.
    My buddies on the other hand would just shake their heads. Girls were just whatever to them. I invest way too much of myself in my relationships and that's good when they work, and devastating when they don't.

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  • My wife and I have had it for 42 years. Has it been always great? No there are ups and downs and we don't agree on things a lot. Through working on our marriage we totally love and support each other no matter what

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  • True love is rare but happens against all odds, am also in the same boat, haven’t met my soul mate, could you be the one? Just say the words and I will move mountains for you..

  • You're not. I was the same. I never felt equally loved by the people I loved and yeah stuff happened. But yeah you'll find someone nice. I'm sure. May I find one too lol

  • I dont think it is rare. I mean I've sexted with a fair few people and randoms (consensually) and it is fun for sure!

    But I do not think romantic love is rare at all. Just have to find that right person. It will happen!

  • That's a shame, but I understand how that can be.

  • Are you saving it for marriage?

    • No, not necessarily.

    • Oh, why do you think you are still a virgin? Just asking because most of the world and society find it more shocking to hear of a woman still being a virgin by a certain age compared to a guy and especially when it's involuntarily

    • Well, long story short, I don’t have sex with strangers and I can’t really get close enough to any guy in order to go there.

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  • No, it just takes patience, dedication, and goal oreintation.