Is eating a girl out disgusting?

Last night I asked my husband to eat me out.

we haven’t done that in months as I’m mostly too shy to ask and he never offers.

his reaction was “is it wet down there? It’s gross when it’s wet”

Which was a huge shock and i responded with “what I eat you out daily, sometimes a few times a day and you’re not showered or clean down there”

He immediately regretted his statement and went down on me. I sat through it even though at that point I didn’t want it anymore.

We got married without having sex prior. It turned out that I have vaginismus (a condition where my vagina closes when I’m about to have sex) which we’ve been working to fix.

Before we found out about the vaginismus he would offer to go down on me all the time in hopes that I’d wanna have sex with him.

I guess that statement just hurt, like I really never see myself asking him to ever go down again. Is it normal for men to think it’s gross down there?

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  • Lmao omg it's gross when wet that is supposed to be the best not when dry!

    It means your excited and ready more for sexy time! I feel way more gross when not soaked and dry. I need lube then or I'd feel so gross!

    Yes some guys will think it is gross not matter what but that boy needs a slap.

    Tots wish you luck with the right pussy we had it and I had to get dilators to help me relax before he could get near to slipping inside!

    After this I'd so never ever go down unless he was showered and shaved! Ew it's gross like me being wet!

    • Yeah I’ve actually been using dilators. I’m on number three right now

    • Congrats soon hopefully you will be able to but that is awful! He needs to give to get anything

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  • Hubby doesn't think so, but I don't like oral on me that much so we don't do that a lot.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I’m sorry to hear that 😕 most men don’t find it disgusting, it’s usually extremely enjoyable for both the women and men. You’re husband sounds like an idiot. It’s obviously your diagnosis that has made him hesitant which isn’t fair.

  • No it is not. For me, it is one of the joys of life. If it is someone I know and like, I go there as soon as she is willing. I consider cunnilingus to be the end point of "making out".

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Sounds like you should have married a man, not a boy...

  • Not disgusting at all.

  • No, of course not! How could anyone think it is?

  • I mean, it is a bit gross it it's not clean down there.
    So both should put effort to clean well before eating

    • It was right after the shower lol

    • Oh I am sorry, then yeah, he's acting weird lol

  • Heck no. I love pleasuring my SO orally. She almost always makes sure she's squeaky clean before we do that though.

  • not at all.
    I love watching her reactions as she is getting close to an orgasm.
    Very sexy.

  • What he said was awful. Eating women out isn't gross at all.

  • If guy cannot eat my both holes he cannot fuck me simple.

    • Let me feast on then 😈

    • You are absolutely magnificent, goddess.

  • What he said was very offensive and degrading.

  • He needs to apologize. Have you told him why what he said felt so hurtful?

  • Eating Pussie yucky gross. 🤢🤮

  • WTF is his problem?

  • No eating ass is though

  • Some are not so great, some are really fucking good….

  • Not at all. I think it's wonderful.

  • Not really

  • Opposite it's very yummy

  • It’s delicious

  • I love eating pussy but I know not all guys do.

  • It's not gross lol

    And if you want to be 100% sure, eat pineapple and strawberries. There are some other fruits that help to

    • *too

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