Is eating a girl out disgusting?

Question

Last night I asked my husband to eat me out.

we haven’t done that in months as I’m mostly too shy to ask and he never offers.

his reaction was “is it wet down there? It’s gross when it’s wet”

Which was a huge shock and i responded with “what I eat you out daily, sometimes a few times a day and you’re not showered or clean down there”

He immediately regretted his statement and went down on me. I sat through it even though at that point I didn’t want it anymore.

We got married without having sex prior. It turned out that I have vaginismus (a condition where my vagina closes when I’m about to have sex) which we’ve been working to fix.

Before we found out about the vaginismus he would offer to go down on me all the time in hopes that I’d wanna have sex with him.

I guess that statement just hurt, like I really never see myself asking him to ever go down again. Is it normal for men to think it’s gross down there?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Lmao omg it's gross when wet that is supposed to be the best not when dry!

It means your excited and ready more for sexy time! I feel way more gross when not soaked and dry. I need lube then or I'd feel so gross!

Yes some guys will think it is gross not matter what but that boy needs a slap.

Tots wish you luck with the right pussy we had it and I had to get dilators to help me relax before he could get near to slipping inside!

After this I'd so never ever go down unless he was showered and shaved! Ew it's gross like me being wet!

Katie1964 · Accepted Answer

Hubby doesn't think so, but I don't like oral on me that much so we don't do that a lot.

Wonderingguyy · Accepted Answer

I’m sorry to hear that 😕 most men don’t find it disgusting, it’s usually extremely enjoyable for both the women and men. You’re husband sounds like an idiot. It’s obviously your diagnosis that has made him hesitant which isn’t fair.

Dargil · Accepted Answer

No it is not. For me, it is one of the joys of life. If it is someone I know and like, I go there as soon as she is willing. I consider cunnilingus to be the end point of "making out".

Hot_Mess_Express · Answer

Sounds like you should have married a man, not a boy...

Billlewis · Answer

No, of course not! How could anyone think it is?

CrimsonAngel09 · Answer

Not disgusting at all.

Guffrus · Answer

You can make anything disgusting if you tell yourself that it is. This is what religion does to people, it's not just all nonsense, it's damaging to people.