Are you trolling? haha! Many women can't orgasm unless they have stimulation to the head of the clitoris, especially oral sex. Many women who do orgasm from penetration need to orgasm first through oral sex. So many women, like 90% say that foreplay is mandatory, as in, NOT optional.
So why would it be considered less masculine to make sure she cums first? After all, it is almost inevitable for the man to cum by the end of a sex session, why not help her get hers first?
I'm down with using toys, tongue, fingers, whatever she wants to make her feel good. That is the point of sex. To have fun! And in a relationship, it is to bring each other closer together through mutual pleasure. Most guys derive much pleasure when they help their woman reach orgasm, regardless of it is by their penis or by some other method. Of course reaching orgasm through intercourse is awesome, but the tongue has way more control and it is much easier to get her there with oral sex.
Pretty closed minded I think. A guy who is attentive, good at giving head, and really enjoys making you cum, is going to be disappointed if you have hangups about him going down on you. He will not appreciate being judged either.
Not to brag, but I have made women squirt with my tongue and fingers. I have also had an ex who refused to let herself orgasm from my tongue because she wanted to by my penis, so she stopped me before she got there. I always asked her later, "why do you stop me? you should relax and enjoy it!" It amazes me. Women who learn how to loosen up and just let go will enjoy sex far far more. The more hangups you have, the more you go against the stream, the more difficult you are making it for yourself.
do you understand that clitorial orgasm can be acheived by rubbing the penis or fingers on clit?
Yes, and do you understand that the tongue has far more control? I can use the flat of my tongue, the edge of my tongue, I can flick, swipe, swirl, and do so many things with it than any man can do with their penis. For many women, it takes time to bring her to climax. I couldn't imagine standing over her, rubbing her clit with my penis for 30 minutes straight. But I certainly enjoy going down on her for that long and would have much more fun doing it. Read "She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman" by Ian Kerner. If a woman is expected to go down for her man and put herself in the most vulnerable position to do it, then why it is so unreasonable for a man to also be vulnerable and to do the same?
Do you know what is more masculine? Not giving a flying fuck with people think about them enjoying eating pussy.
Sorry... I get off by getting a woman off. I'm not submissive but the woman is ALWAYS the important one in sex. It does not matter if I cum. I have a GREAT time when having sex, oral or otherwise. I LOVE eating pussy! It tastes great, I do it passionately and willingly. I don't ever need to be asked. I wouldn't ask if I could either, I just do it. I'll tongue fuck your ass too!
I feel the same way! Our opinions aren't popular though. Anyway I find it such a turnoff putting him in such a submissive state, and I just don't know if I'd ever be comfortable with it. Guys seem to like doing it though..
I don't care that most people disagree lol
How does it emasculate? If anything it gives a certain amount of power over her, he’s literally got her by the most sensitive and vulnerable part of her body and she’s allowing it.
he can still touch the most sensitive and vulnerable part of my body with his hand
That doesn’t answer my question
the way men lick. When they vibrate their tongue or lick rapidly like a cat licks milk.
no no no no... A man making sure his woman is being pleasures is one of the most masculine things you can do, in my opinion
No way, a real man can make me cum in a few different ways :)
When u'll feel it u'll change ur mind hh
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giving oral is submissive therefore feminine
Why is being submissive feminine? Plenty of men are submissive and women dominant.
so what they are submissive men then
no wtf?
it's amazing
Your crazy
I can't let him do something hat turns me off
Are you kidding? Effective oral is the ultimate dominance disguised as submission. If you're good, she ends up laying there catching her breath and mumbling incoherently.
it shows his submission
His excellent disguise.
"Most of u asked me why I don't let him eat me out. Men! Pleasuring her without you getting an orgasm is submissive and not masculine. She is coming and you're not. So this act makes you submissive. This is my reasoning" Surprisingly faulty at 27. If I drive 25 miles to change my GF's tire in the rain while she watches dry in the car, is that submissive? No. It's chivalrous. Ditto bringing her off first... and I get mine afterward.
It's more masculine, if anything.
lesbians do it lol
gay men suck dicks, what point are you trying to make lmfao
@DawnToDusk giving oral is submissive.
I do not underrstand why it would be less masculine.
Nope, i want find a woman who will let me give her oral.
But not for me to judge those who don't want oral sex.
I don't see it being less masculine.
i think it takes a real man to eat a pussy,
I think the opposite lol
you are still young and someday your opinion may change.
You could just sit on him, than close your eyes.
nope can't stand that position
yeah some girls don't like sitting on a guy much, but it's very pleasurable for a guy at the right time. Doesn't have to be long.
I genuinely wouldn't care if it's worse than getting a frikin sex-change operation. I'm pinning her cervix to the wall with my tongue whether she likes it or not.
To me, your reasoning is wrong. It is masculine to want your partner to feel pleasure.
Just because I'm eating her out doesn't mean I won't take my turn at some point. Sex doesn't have to be one single thing all the way through.. in fact I'd be genuinely astonished if anyone did it that way.
If it is not masculine then you just aren't tied up enough.
You say you could never let him do that - suggests to me you've never tried it.
Giving a woman pleasure is a pretty key part of what most guys think of as masculine - bragging about being good in bed is a thing.
Making a woman cum by penis is accomplishment
Sure, as is bring her to orgasm any way it's done.
How is pleasing a woman less masculine?
pleasing in that way is
How so?
I dont think you understand what masculine is.
Its the opposite
I think it's very masculine to arouse your girl where she can't (using the tongue)
he is being submissive
Not when you're controlling her orgasm and feeling in control
pleasuring is submissive
no its sexy
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