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Thefapbook.com. Facebook adds a new like button
Facebook has become the go to place when guys are feeling horny. Or even can make them feel horny. Facebook is a massive collection of every hot female friend's social life from her innocent to wilder moments. It is in short, his fapbook.
Ever wondered why you got so many likes?
Have you ever wondered when you were wearing that hot dress on Halloween, or posed for a selfie with your mouth open, or you and another hot friend took a bikini picture on the beach, why all your guy friends hit the "like" button? It's a reflex action to viewing such stimulating visual material, or else a mark of gratitude after a good session.
I love it when a female friend posts pictures of herself with her mouth open. It seems like many others do given the number of likes she gets!
When you pose like above, or better still looking right at the camera, we love you for it. So much so, we hit that "like" button.
Many of us fantasise about our hot female friends, and when they post visual material of themselves with their mouth open, well we've got something hard, you've got your mouth open, you can see where our minds take us.
Please do take a selfie. You're not the only one who thinks it's a good photo of you!
Since we have now entered the selfie era as well, Facebook is host to even more instant moments of selfies by the pool, by the beach, at the party, just after you got ready for a big night out. We love you for it. And we love that our phones are getting bigger again to show us your hot fb pictures too, but that's another take.
It gives us a visual tool for our fantasies
When we see a hot female friend with another hot female friend, it allows us to visually imagine the three some or you making out with her or us all in the hottub together. Men are visual creatures and simply love it when an attractive female posts a hot picture of herself for our pleasure.
So many guys do it and it seems a lot of women know it (and love it?)
I think I have gotten off pretty much every time I went on fb to at least two of my female friends, sometimes both of them together!"
One study showed 80% of guys masturbated to their female friends' pictures on Facebook. The trend was particular strong amongst single guys at nearly 92% where it was especially a common occurrence if the girl they were fantasizing about was also single. Amongst guys who had a girlfriend, it was lower at 65%. In this category, around 55% of this was about a female friend versus their girlfriend.
When an attractive female friend of a guy posts a new picture on Facebook, he will often browse through them. If he finds her hot, it's likely he'll fantasize about her and use the picture to compliment his imagination. E.g. She is posing at a party smiling, turns into her smiling whilst let's say riding someone, erm thing.
One of the most common fantasies was a female friend giving him head. If a girl happened to also be an innocent or very nice person, it added to the excitement. Often this was the only place they might see them being more suggestive or less innocent:
My cute and innocent friend is so nice. When she posts a picture, she looks really hot in a dress or her smile just makes me feel excited. I feel so happy seeing her on fb."
These female friends are mainly crushes and someone he desires
Now occasionally, the guy might "fap" to a girl he knows on fb (i.e. a fb friend only and not someone he considers a friend), but he wouldn't want anything with her. He just found that particular picture hot. But mostly, when a guy fantasizes about a fb friend (who is an actual person he cares about), he does like her in a special way and would happily sleep with her and live out that fantasy if she offered.
There are really nice cute friends who you like and feel aroused by their picture. There are fun girls who are a bit flaky on timings, who you enjoy in your own time.
It allows us to live out a fantasy much better. It truly connects our fantasies.
But fantasizing on "Fapbook" is quite common. Maybe it's exciting in some circumstances because you know the person, but sometimes it is because you actually know and like the person a lot.
It's a compliment
The guys are often expressing an attraction to you and actually imagine having passionate sex with you. Now do you like this? Would you prefer a fap button?
In my view, there are 3 types of guys who would do this:
1. Guys who are your fb friends, maybe you see in everyday life, but are not that decent to you. They are using you as objectification/sexual material.
2. Guys who are mainly your fb friends, who don't see you often. They might be nice to you, but are probably not that real a friend. The fact they don't see or contact you often by other means than fb is a case in point. They probably hit you up to get off about that hot friend they have when they are feeling horny or want some variety.
3. Guys who might be your fb or not, and you also see in life. They are extremely nice to you. A good person, confident, kind, caring. They find you genuinely attractive. Now if that's the case, why haven't you clicked that they like you (they're being extra nice to you for a reason ladies cos they like you), and why don't you tell them to get off Facebook and come to your place as you have to show them something?
Guy 3 would love to see you like this...
Would you want to know, should there be a fap button?
Would you feel flattered if you knew they got off about you? What about those who never clicked like and still got off to your picture of you looking rather fine in a short skirt? Or wearing that body fitting dress?
What about guys who aren't on Facebook and still see your profile picture through a friend or fapbook account?
What about guy friends who fantasize about you irregardless and wonder just how to live out those fantasies with the girl they really like (you)?
How do women not get when a guy "likes" them in real life?
So answer this. You have a great guy friend. Maybe you even met him when you were not single, but you are now. He makes you laugh. As well as being pretty handsome himself, he is very nice and caring toward you. Sends a sweet text here or there. Maybe you actually interact with him much less on Facebook (Fapbook) than by texting or catching up with him in person. Now if he is really nice to you, sends you flirty messages, do you not realise that this is because he likes you?
Have we entered an era where guys who brag on Facebook have women acting less than innocent?
Is the reason why some guys getting off about the lovely lady because they are more respectful to her in real life. Thus when she poses in her naughty pose with her girlfriends or in a hot dress, they see a side of her she keeps hidden?
Or even if a brash guy friend has her posing along with others so he can post it on his account along with many other pictures of him and other girls, is he just doing it so he can "fap to it" later? More often than not, this guy never gets to sleep with them though!
Would the guys who wouldn't objectify her like this, then have to resort to looking at that picture, fap about it (just her, it's called cropping) and then wonder afterward how to have her acting like this around him in private?
What do you think?
Most guys "fap" to their female friends on fb. And most guys would want what the above gif shows. And a majority of your guy friends would love to take you out. Why don't you ask THEM out?
Life's short, if you find him attractive, ask him out and enjoy yourself!
What Girls & Guys Said
23 36YES YES YES
That's what I imagined the picture with her mouth open saying as I fapped
Try this...
www.GirlsDoPorn.com
What is it? Can I forward it to a female friend? =D
Do you not know how to click?
I can't seem to access from work. What is it?
i just watch porn or sext some girl to jack off. When i look at girls do hot stuff on fb, i actually get depressed thinking i dont deserve to see it lol
But they posted it for you to see lol? I mean I personally just visualise them in my head. But seeing a female friend's picture makes me horny and just copy and paste it into my head. Leggggggggs!
they posted it for their more handsome friends to see and u just happened to see it too, thats the truth
Lol I am one of her handsome friends. I saw it via a female friend on her fb. She texts me and puts her arm on my waist. Whereas the guy she posed around with five other girls, only shoulder. That guy puts these pictures and calls them "daboss". They seem to get likes from the girls as well lol? Don't think there's any action in real life tho. As for pictures, I think the guys who click like - the people you are calling "more handsome friends" - don't actually get any sex lol. They just validate her.
well good for you lol and they do, i am sure
You're a bit rude and defeatist mate lol. I'm not less handsome than these guys. Tbh I'm probably more attractive. Either way, I don't think they do lol. Texting a girl is far more personal than liking her on fb. Fb is her group of validators. They're not the guys who are banging her (unless they're already her bf). In addition, it's a place, for everyone to have a personalised porn page.
No fuckin way
and then people wonder why i terminated my fb account all those years ago :\
Oh? So why was it because guys or girls mentioned that? Tbh I don't really see fb as a sign of who your friends are. Sure those guys (and girls) will communicate with you on it. They might even hang out in groups with you in the real world. But ultimately, the guy or girl who isn't on Facebook and who remembers stuff about you and shows a caring attitude by texting or through their kindness is your true friend. Most fb friends tend to not contact or display affection outside of it in the real world or even through other mediums like the phone, texting, etc.
no, i stopped using fb because i found out firsthand that some guys do jerk off to girls on fb, i didn't find out from a rumor or gossip i agree with that as well, but while friends in fb do feel distant i did manage to find most of my old grade-school and high-school friends through it, so it had its uses
First hand? Yeah I guess if you need a directory, it's a good one. Would a guy who shows care by text and in person have a chance with a sweet girl if he wasn't on fb?
Oh and they met at uni and have kept in touch through meeting up and texting by the way (met when she had a boyfriend and now she's single)?
i would think so yes, they would have a good chance, social media shouldn't dictate how we interact with one another and instead use it as an extension of ourselves, and i'm sure girls would appreciate a guy who is willing to come in person than over facebook any day :)
Ok that's good. But how do you compete/communicate your attraction compared to other friends who are in more regular contact by fb etc. So I'd just be my texting and in person. How do you meet them solo/ask them to meet solo?
Ok that's good. But how do you compete/communicate your attraction compared to other friends who are in more regular contact by fb etc. So I'd just be my texting and in person. How do you meet them solo/ask them to meet solo? well.. first it shouldn't be a competition in your eyes, the second is basically to do it like guys in the 90's did, be outgoing and charismatic, sociable and approachable, a guy who is a very vibrant person and stands out in the crowd easily attracts company, and if you wanna be the initiator instead of the magnet then you could just straight up approach the girl and talk to them like you would anyone, when a relationship is forged then you could always advance or you could also do what some guys of this generation tend to do which is make a scene that appears like an accidental/coincidental encounter and go on from there, i find that being used very often in a number of scenario's :p
as far as locations, many guys think nightclubs or bars are a good choice, but in reality any social gathering is a good choice, it could be a coffee shop, a bookstore, a sports club, a plaza, a park, any relevant venue would easily work :)
I know, it's just hard when you hear or see through others pictures of them with other guys on fb haha. Of course, I guess they converse as friends much more often on fb as well as in real life whereas for me it's texting or in person. I mean I guess I am an outgoing guy who she likes. This is a girl I know already by the way who has become single. But how do you meet her away from other friends if you suggest seeing her? What makes it clear in a girl's eyes that your social circle guy is requesting to catch up solo?
oops, i just realized that i didn't delete the copy of your comment on my reply, i was using it as reference so i didn't have to scroll down all the time.. sry about that as for that question, i imagine the most common way is to just be simple and ask her out to coffee or something, the venue or reason isn't important because its really just an excuse to ask her out, you can't really show any signs that you're interested in her over the phone so that's entirely up to your encounter with her when you meet up, i think for better advice you should ask a guy who is also not bound by social media :p
That's a great point. It's just that either I commute to her city from the middle of nowhere or both of us commute to the capital. Now the capital is home to other ex classmates but has more choice of food and better transport etc. So I'm just wondering how to ask her to meet me solo without those classmates being involved. It has to be more planned given the booking and commuting you see. How can you mention catching up with her solo after so long. It's not that I don't like the others, but would much prefer just her as I'm there to see HER? Are guys who are in real life and social media just friends versus guys in real life and texting? Is coffee or lunch better? It's texting by the way, what do women like to hear and what's crystal clear it's 1 on 1?
well the easiest way to avoid her/your classmates is basically to plan for the meet during a time when they're stuck in class instead of being on break or lunch, avoiding common hangouts your classmates go to is also a good idea, as for meeting with her alone you'll have to be a bit creative about it, if you two know eachother it should be easier to achieve though technically what you wanna do doesn't really matter but having coffee is more of a 'meet-up with someone' thing rather than going out for lunch, since lunch can mean just between you two or between you, her and a group of friends
No no they are EX classmates. We have all graduated and are working. But if it's a weekend, then they might be free. They all live in the capital. Did you see my point about travelling? Yes I'm asking how to do a lunch/dinner with just two of us?
in that case its a lot harder to do, but one way to avoid them is to go places that are on the expensive side because you're less likely to meet someone you know there, other options could be like a coffee shop or restaurant in a corner of the city that's not well known, you could also ditch the whole food venue theme and go for a movie or amusement park but that veers towards a date-like situation
No what I mean is if she suggests shall we see who else is free as they live in the same city? Or else if she meets them earlier in the day, and suddenly for your afternoon meet another friend rolls up
what about skating, bowing can a guy friend suggest catch up over that?
hmm.. if she pulls that card it may be difficult to avoid at all, but the likelihood is small, i think you're just overthinking it.. if you really wanna keep them from meeting up with her you could ask all her friends separately the previous day for a favor to say that they're busy when she calls them the next day, but that's a bit overkill.. skating is a bit on the 'date' side of things, while bowling could work
Ok so for the bowlng thing, how do you ask her? With dinner and that, how do you prevent her "pulling that card" as you say and asking about it? Would it be unlikely? And if she actually invited you before you can even ask what can u say I'd prefer to meet her solo and I guess if she's single I am allowed to ask now right? Is it already clear when I say let's meet for this, that I mean solo?
Anything?
sry i couldn't find this thread in my list, i must have missed it.. i don't really know how to answer exactly how and i think a guy could answer your question than i can, sry if i can't help further..
Any chance u can help me out? www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2149531-do-women-let-some-men-get-away-with-more-see-description-first
That's the reason why I rarely post pictures of myself.
Ok fair enough. So do you know about this then?
I knew about it.
As in that most guys would love to see their female friend doing that gif at the bottom of the take?
Yes. I am not delusional.
Is there a way to tell a female friend you like who has become single/or hint that you'd love to see her do that or be more flirty?
EWWW WTF NOO
If a girl posts a picture with her tiddies all out she knows why there's hundreds of likes on it...
They aren't dumb they obviously want the attention
Doesn't have to be revealing either tho. Tbh a bit of leg or just a hot smile is enough. They all get the 95 likes and above right?
These days no Girls are more desperate than that That would get them a few likes... But they know what would get them a bunch of likes
Nah even a smile or in shorts will get a lot of likes. A bikini would crash the site.
I don't use Facebook, Instagram or any other social media, so there is no one fapping to me on my pics. I haven't even took inappropriate photos with any of my friends who use social media. They're not even sluts to take those types of pictures. Maybe if there were no sluts on Facebook and slutty pics were prohibited, it wouldn't be Fapbook to the female friends of guys.
Ok good on you. I don't think anyone has to be on these things unless they want to. I think it's something to be aware of. I agree with you. I think the girl doesn't necessarily have to be a "slutty person". I think in general, women seem to post less innocent pictures on fb than they would share with their friends in the real world. And it doesn't have to be a bikini shot, even a pretty picture of a female friend is really liked on fb and in the real world as a guy faps to it? What do u think?
I never post anything revealing. I have small boobs and butt so it's not like there's anything arousing to even show.
I will say that my best guy-friend has had sex with me and my best friend. We both slept with him and send him photos of ourselves often. I highly doubt he thinks "we should have a threesome" though.. Just seems odd.
Also, 92% of guys? I don't think so..
That guy is so lucky how did that happen?
He had sex with her first before I knew her. he's the one who introduced us. Then he and I had sex
Oh so could a guy have one with a female friend and her friend if they hadn't done it before?
Ya that's what happened to me
Be like everyone else and not expect a medal (or a button) for playing with yourself.
Bet he did this question before deciding to do a take
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2056733-do-you-agree-men-should-jerk-off-to-fb-pics-of-women-they-know-in
So you are aware of the fact most men do it? What does it mean and what should they the men do? Or how would the females react?
The men should just do it and not expect to talk about it with their female friends - especially not expecting some kind of appreciation in return. Everybody masturbates, it's just a normal function not some grand statement.
But they must know they masturbate about them right?
Read the "it's a compliment" section as well and tell me your thoughts
Dude, please get a life. Masturbation, just isn't right. Facebook? Since when did facebook become windows for boys to be peeping toms?
When was it founded?
February 4, 2004.
"Since when did facebook become windows for boys to be peeping toms?" Since it was founded, and it was actually with the sole intent to rate females.. didn't you see the movie?
@mikemx55 Whatever!
@mikemx55 Yeah precisely. Opinion poster, it was based on rating women. Then it included sharing pictures. It's been fapbook since its inception.
I guess boys will be boys. 🙈
You can blame Mark Zuckerberg.. that perv xD
@mikemx55 And ledge in a sense. Don't think innocent women would post their pictures otherwise.
Well, not all girls post naked pics. Some of us are dignified. 😊 Boys, just somehow seem to end up, on the page of naked girls. 😜
We're not talking about nudes. We're talking about general pictures lol.
Generally pics? That isn't possible. 😏
just watch the movie already XD
Yeah. So in her party wear, if she looks good, it's a like from the guy fb friends.
@mikemx55 Facematch
What movie are you guys talking about? I have got to see. 😏
The fb movie
umm, aren't there websites dedicated to that kind of stuff
Facebook yes
Thats just sad if you go to Facebook to fap.
I do notice how pretty girls get hundreds of likes though.
Why do u think that is?
I know quite a bit of good looking girls. A lot of them have insecurity issues. I blame society for that one. On the guys side, i don't really understand all too well. I guess guys are just compelled to give pretty girls compliments. And do it in droves without even thinking about it. The pretty girls use this as a "check" to assure themselves that they are still accepted in society at "hot".
Yes so are they using them for validation? Will the guys who like the picture actually never get to sleep with her whereas a guy not on fb would?
First questio : yes. Second question: no. A friend of my brother is one of those "hot" girls. After a deep conversation with her i learned all of this. She's extremely insecure. But her Facebook and Instagram is a guys dream come true.
I don't think you understood the 2nd one. As in: Guy A who likes her pic on fb having fapped or not. Would he get to sleep with her? Guy B who isn't on fb. He shares a connection through texting or making her feel great in person. Would he get to sleep with her?
Very true.
Isn't it? I mean why do they think they get so many likes
Just jacked off to this chicks pics a day ago from FB
https://i.imgur.com/1as0PaN.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/PgUbw70.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/o0Ubfre.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/iIGJvXS.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/c2Xz0aM.jpg
Didn't click like though. Lol. NOOBS.
Omg, dude that's your friend? You are one lucky bro. That top picture, daaaamn! Hahaha agreed on clicking like. It always amuses me how 140 guys have liked it (and maybe 12 girls). I enjoy myself and tell her in person she looks good rather than liking on fb. I think those that do are doomed to a certain zone. Dude, life is short, just tell this girl she is fit and go out with her now.
Why can't my hot friends also wear a bikini? Daaaamn! She does wear really short shorts tho. Just became single, but don't know what to say to her. Never really interact much on fb with her versus texts and in person.
Also that top pic, damn! What do u think about my friend?
"Would you want to know, should there be a fap button?"
... WTF...
Should there?
see my opinion, gonna start posting that on fb comments looool
No. There shouldn't be such a button. Everyone would just block whoever pressed it.
@mikemx55 LOL! Opinion owner anonymous - if the woman blocked those guys, there would be no validators left! Suddenly just the few girls who like a picture and that's it.