
I'm a virgin not by compulsion but by choice because I don't want to share my body with anyone except my wife. I don't understand how people can have casual sex.
What happened to loyalty? With women’s demand for equality we have encouraged women and men to stop being loyal. Being loyal is hard work but it gives depth and meaning.
What do women gain through one night stands or casual sex?
Approval. Social acceptance. A notch on their belt. Sexual release. Connection (often not a deep or vulnerable connection)
But what do they lose?
They lose the mystery and the gradual build up of attraction that makes a man and woman deserving of each other’s trust and investment in each other.
I also believe that the short term gratification of quick sex wears away one’s innocence in relationships and capability to be vulnerable.
"In the bigger picture, women lose sensitivity to their bodies and they can also lose depth in relationships."

Short term involvement allows more deception to occur
Casual sex, or sex that happens too quickly – allows more deception to occur. It’s the opposite for the sexes, not the same! As many people would like it to be. This is not equal playing ground.

If a woman decides that her rule is she’s an easygoing woman who doesn’t mind getting into bed quickly, then she leaves herself open to the full spectrum of men’s deception strategies.
LIKE. When the opportunity for casual sex presents itself, men have the most colourful and successful tactics for getting what they want.

What are men’s deception tactics to get easy sex?
Pretending he is single, he doesn’t have any children, he is ambitious when he’s a lazy bum.
Pretending he’s interested in her emotionally (feigning an emotional connection)
Lying about his earnings and assets.
Faking confidence (real confidence reveals itself over time).
Faking good intentions, care.
Lying or not revealing what happened in his past relationships.
So be careful guys who you have sex with.
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