Is friends with benefits worth it and okay if both people respect each other and have boundaries established?

I've never had a friends with benefits and dont wanna rush into a relationship and neither does the guy im talking to but we both wanna have some fun of course with xondoms and try being friends with benefits with no strings attached. Is it okay if there's clear communication?
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  • You don't have to respect each other.
    Casual relationship are the best when it's just fucking around and boundaries are ignored.
    You don't want to care about them in ways other than sexual.

    Actual friendships with sex, that stuff never works.

    • I mean like respecting each other’s health by not spreading or passing STDS or STIS if that makes sense. But no I totally see where you’re coming from. A clear communication is the key to know where those individuals stand of course.

    • A man is most likely not going to have any issues with communication, the woman may however have issues with just how clearly the man is able to communicate in such an arrangement. The biggest hurdle for you is going to be overcoming that by adopting an equal mindset, which some women can do but many can't. Casual relationships can work just fine, but they require a specific mindset. Best case scenario is having a motivation in which the lack of emotional attachment will actually benefit your experience- for example seeking to try out kinks or allowing yourself to be a little more sexual than you would normally be comfortable being with people whose judgement you would care about more.

    • We met off tinder and barley started talking. He’s 18, I’m 23. He isn’t looking for anything serious neither am I right now because we don’t wanna rush but he said he wants to try friends with benefits with me and none of us have ever tried and the thought turns me on, he’s also hot.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • I've said this many times on this site. The friends with benefits thing is bogus. You either want a boyfriend or a fuck buddy. If you dabble in the middle ground, someone is going to get hurt. You see that on this site all the time. "What does it mean if he asked me to stay the night?"

    Stay clear of the whole friend thing. Meet with your lover, and then leave. No cuddling, no Netflix, no dating...

  • Yes if you're looking for easy uncomplicated sex but make sure not to get like too much into it if its not both sided

Most Helpful Guy

  • As long as you both know where you stand and there is clear communication, I don't see there being any problem with it. I've had various friends with benefit relationships over the years and none of them were ever a problem.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Yes it is a great way to share pleasure.

  • I find it worth it. I don’t have time for a real relationship right now, so I have that when I need it

  • Yes, that makes sense.

  • friends with benefits is never ok and is for pathetic losers, with no lives. I GUARAN DAMN TEE IT

  • Always be friends first

  • friends with benefits relations rarely leads to anything more than that.