Is giving a hickey cheating?

okay so i just got with a girl, I’ve liked her for a while.. and I’m helllllaaaa gay.. so all my friends and people at my school and family know it too. n my best friend said she needed to ask me a question, she was really nervous and jittery and getting red so I got kinda nervous.. for a second I thought she had fallen for me or something which scared me cause were so close and she is hot Buh I just got with my girlfriend. She asked if I would give her a hickey, cause she loves getting them. Like the feeling and maybe the mark.. she’s my best friend and I’d do anything for her and I’m not weirded out by it since were so close. Buh I have a girlfriend, so I’m asking.. Is giving a hickey if you don’t mean it sexually cheating?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Your intentions are not the only ones that count. Both of you know that giving someone a hickey has sexual connotations, or at least physically intimate connotations. If that is something that you, your friend, or your significant other is not comfortable with, that's where there's a problem.
    If you feel like you did something wrong to the extent that you're looking for other people to tell you it was or wasn't wrong, then you did something you know you shouldn't have done. How you handle that, be it talking with your SO or pretending it never happened, is all up to you.

    • I haven’t done it, she asked me tonight before I left

    • In that case, the fact that you're questioning it means you don't know, and if there's that much grey area then I would say don't do it. No one can tell you what you're comfortable with besides you. The test here is to ask your SO. If you think they'll react negatively and so you don't want to ask them, then it's safe to say you shouldn't do it. If you're okay with asking them because you're pretty sure they won't mind, then it's safe to say asking them what they think will be fine.

  • Yes it is cheating and if you're gay, why do you have a girlfriend?

    • Apparently they're a girl and messed up when making their account

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes it is “I would do anything for her.”
    Lol, when it comes to a committed relationship with someone, your girlfriend comes first, not another girl.
    Welcome to adult relationship.

  • You have a girlfriend but you’re hella gay? I think you might have a bigger problem on your hands...

    • i accidentally hit male k😂

  • It sounds innocent enough but speak to your S/O if they agree then it's ohk.

  • YES. . . dont do, it will be your lat mistake you will ever make, i promise

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  • I would say that's cheating, yes.

  • Yeah it is.

  • I can guarantee if you asked your girlfriend if it was ok to give another girl a hickey, best friend or not, she wouldn't have that shit.

  • I would consider it cheating.