Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is giving blowjob required before sex?
MeiAndYou Xper 3
Sorry if dumb question I just started having sex when I moved from China and I thought I always give blowjob so the guy is ready to have sex. I do really enjoy the feeling of giving blowjob and the happiness it gives men but just curious!
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What Girls & Guys Said
17 63Not required, but if you like it and they do, fill your boots
Let me be frank if I may. Largely, it is a two way street, they should make you ready as well if you enjoy that sort of thing. If you are ready, it is the same as a blowjob making him ready right. If you enjoy it, you are a godsend. No guy is going to tell you if you dont know, because no guy is stupid enough to give up blowjobs you think are needed. If you want to have a laugh at his expense, try to kiss him after lol. Make him make you are ready too once in a while, or blow him at the end of sex, or, do not even have sex at all. The 69 is a very intimate thing.
Nope. I don't particularly enjoy most blowjobs.
Not at l, but it can be a nice warmup at times
I like a bj and also when a woman plays with my balls (but as they are sensitive I like it when they are played with gently in a certain way).
Not essential!..
You can say no, if he isn't clean or groomed down there!..
Even if 'required' nobody needs to do something they don't want to.
I also really like going down first
I have no idea how its in China, but it's not required.
It is certainly not required, but I think most guys expect it.
It is a suck-off, since blow-job is with a hair dryer or with explosives.
No, it is not required. Oral can be arousing, if you take it all the way that's an orgasm wasted.
No not required but it’s a very nice gesture by the girl and hopefully the guy will reciprocate by licking the clitoris or both of you do 69 position 🙂👍
Happens but not a requirement.
I normally do but it’s not essential
To climax or just as foreplay
How long do you blow him for?
Yes I like a BJ before or after sex..
That is good I give them!
Nope
I like it too eyy,
It gets it nice and lubed
No. Just let the guy stick it in
I suck just to help it get lubed
No lol. (It's nice, though!)
It is not required before sex, but can be an element of foreplay. There are a lot of things that can be part of foreplay, it doesn't need to be strictly a blowjob, and it doesn't only need to be things that give him pleasure, you should be receiving pleasure too
Depends on the man I suppose, but not for me. And even if it’s a guy’s favorite part it still shouldn’t be an absolute must. One thing I personally look forward to when I start my sex life is experimentation.