I don't think I'd consider it "cheating", but I'd be pretty pissed off if my partner were to do that. Likewise, I'd expect her to be angry if I did that with another woman (I NEVER would, by the way); that's a lot of up close, intimate contact to have with someone, and I think those kinds of things should be reserved for just my partner and I.
Sitting on his ass and giving him a massage?
A massage is already an intimate thing. I suppose a boyfriend shouldn't go nuts over something like that, but don't do it again. Imagine your boyfriend (or girlfriend maybe) massaging someone else, and it ends up leading to something else. Touch is an intimate thing of itself.
I'd say that's pretty close to crossing the line, because I sure as hell would not rub down some rando dude, nor one I let one do that to me. It's not like... dump your partner as soon as it happens cheating, but it's get so pissed he's afraid to ever do it again cheating.
It depends. Did you massage his back with your hands or with your breasts?
The latter is obviously worse and I consider it cheating.
If it was the erotic kind then it's obviously disrespectful and I'd consider it a valid reason to break-up.
Depends on the type of messaging going on. It would be the same as in real life. When I was in a relationship I still had male friends I kept in touch with.
If it's a massage with a happy ending, then it's definitely cheating. Otherwise, it depends on what is being touched and how.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!No... for the back. The ass? Well, that's moving right into not-so-clear territory.
But massage is often done with intent. Did you intend to go further, and get turned down?
id get mad, but its not cheating. Lets just say its disrespectful to the person you're dating as you're showing contempt for the intimacy they provide you on any level
Well, if you were doing the same thing, how would he react? Yeah, it may not be intimate, but it is very personal and very physical. If you don't like it, tell him.
Massages can turn into sex.
a massage is not cheating as long as you don't have intercourse with him/her
Definetaly not cheating.
Hmm i wouldn't say cheating but why do that in the 1st place. I would probably leace my girl if she did that to another guys cause there's no reason for that ehile in a relationship.
Yes it's cheating
It's not cheating.
No I don't think it is it a nice thing to do.
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