For men ejaculation (shooting semen) and having an orgasm are not actually the same but usually occur together. So people use orgasm or cum to mean both. If they were going to separate them they'd probably call ejaculation cumming rather than orgasm.
For women there are different types of orgasm. Some involve a lot of fluid and some don't. For women cumming usually means any type of orgasm. If it's the type where there's a lot of fluid they'd specifically say squirting.
Meanwhile do either of you ever rub your clit during sex?
Yes
Cummings is d release of dt fluid
While orgasm is d combination of dt feeling nd dt contraction of muscles nd all those rythem u feel while cumming
ya its the same thing..lol
most guys dont get that penatretion to us is if all we did was just rubbed their balls and not their dick lol..our penis is just reeaalllyy small lol
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most women don't during intercourse. it is better you don't lie.
just tell him you thought it was you until you did research and found most women don't orgasm through penetration.
I always ate my ex wife out and finished her before I would finish inside her. we had a great sex life. it can work out if you communicate.
In this instance they're the same, yes. I'd encourage you to tell your boyfriend the truth; no shame in not orgasming from penetration. It'll be good for both of you to be in the same page.
No it is not. When a female cums, she squirts. But many people usr the yearns interchangeably.
Meant terms not yearns.
Women who squirt are in the minority. And it does not mean if she orgasms/cums. Many women cum but don't squirt.
"Cum" for a guy represents semen, for a female its the clear liquid that's produced when and if a girl squirts. You're right that few women actually squirt, but It's suppose to be a sign of the greatest of all orgasms.
Ejaculation and orgasm are two different things.Usually coincide. It is possible to orgasm without ejaculation (Tantra. This is the only way for a male multiple orgasm). It is also possible ejaculation without orgasm.
er...yes? why wouldn't it be?
Yes! Most girls can't cum/orgasm from just intercourse. You need clit stimulation in order to climax!
For me, they are inseparable.
either one is the ultimate climax, but if your fella is not paying you the attention, then maybe its time to show him exactly how your body enjoys it and explain its a little different to his, so he needs to pay attention to detail lol, otherwise, you might as well do it yourself, x
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