Is having friends with benefits with a taken guy wrong?

he has a girlfriend of 6yrs..yet he is sleeping with me and he said he has feelings for me.. what do I do..continue this still?
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ya that is true. but I don't know I do really like him and I feel a connection there
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You both are right thanks! I just wish we didn't take it this far
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Most Helpful Girls

  • if he was worth anything and valued you, he would've already broken up with her to date you. remember it's not what they say, it's what they do. the fact that he's CHEATING on his girlfriend is a big red flag because this shows that if he was to ever pursue anything with you. there's a likelier chance of him cheating on you if he has feelings for another girl

    don't continue this. you are directly effing over his girlfriend and when she finds out, it'll be a sh*tload of pain for her to deal with. would you like knowing that your boyfriend of 6 years cheated on you instead of having the respect and courtesy to just end things? what does it say about your self-worth and value to be second? you deserve more. and his girlfriend sure as hell does too.

  • absolutely do not continue it. if he has a girlfriend it's not longer considered friends with benefits - it's now called "the other woman". you don't want to be the other woman for the rest of your life, and if they've been together for 6 years, it looks as if they probably aren't going to call it quits. find someone who wants you and only you, and you should feel the same towards them.

  • it is totally wrong! Think about it. Would you like it if it was happening to you? Cheaters cheat because we allow them to.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Did you seriously just ask this? Find some morals and respect for yourself. You already know the answer - you knew the answer the first time you slept with him.

  • Save the drama for soemone else.If he cheate don her with you and had sex what makes you think he won't have more FWB when you are with him?

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