Is having sex with a ptostitute considered cheating?

If a man has been married for 20 years.

Has not gotten sex from his wife for the past 5 years.

Can't remember what a pussy looks like.

When he asks for sex she's never interested.

Like most women she complains about how men are such sex crazed animals who always obsessed with their disgusting "sausages". Also that there are "much more important things than sex in a relationship".

In this case is it okay for the man to seek out prostitutes without telling his wife?
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  • I don't consider it as cheating. 5 fucking years no sex. And they are married for 20 years. How many times did he ask her about this topic how many times did he got rejected. And his wife doesn't even care about his needs. May be its not okay but married for 29 years and she is not saying or thinking anything about his husband is kinda unfair. Or may be he done something bad and and found out later. Can't say anything. But there are no male sex toys I guess to relieve sexual pressure. And at that age he would be too emabarassed to ask and use it. What else must he do. He must apply for divorce and get a new girl? Would he get a new girl? And everyone is talking here it as a cheating. What if a girl does this shit? She can get away with this coz his man is not manly enough that old guy is an idiot and she would get all the support.. Its totally unfair to call it cheating

  • Why wait the 5 years is the first qn. Second qn is has the man n his wife talked about why no sex ( is there an inherent problem being faced by the wife, is she just lost her sex drive etc). Have they gone to counseling. What has the guy done for 5 years to quench his sexual appetite. Does his wife care whether he gets sex or not elsewhere? Lots of factors will determine what's to be done next. ( I haven't answered the question because it's unknown at this point what's transpired already).

Most Helpful Girls

  • Sex is important to most women. I wouldn't be able to be in a relationship if my boyfriend wouldn't want to have sex. I think it has more about to do as when a woman gets older maybe she doesn't feel as sexy? Maybe her body has started to change and she is really insecure about it.

    And ofc having sex with a prostitute Is cheating

    • Sex is an afterthought to most women.

    • Honestly no, most just wanna make it seem that way to men. Like trust me, me & me girls definitely don't see sex as an "afterthought"

    • I really doubt that.

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  • If you aren't satisfied with your wife and unhappy about that, then leave her and you are free to fuck around as much as you like. But when you are in a relationship, at least if its not an open one, it doesn't matter if you pay for sex or not, it is still cheating.

    • But if sex is not important to most women I don't see why prostitutes are a big deal. The man wouldn't be starting a relationship with a prostitute and moving her into the house, he just pays her, fucks her, and she disappears forever.

    • Yes, but it doesn't change anything about the fact that it would still be cheating. Or would you be okay if your wife would just hook up with a random guy for a night? It doesn't have to be a second relationship to be considered as cheating. I do not think that sex isn't important to MOST women either... probably after they are already on their menopause or asexual, but definetely not for women in general. Just because most of us do not have the same libido as a guy has, it doesn't mean that we do not have any at all.

    • It's not about libido. It's in a part of the brain which tells you what's important and what it isn't, in men's brains it's riggt beside life and death, in women's brains sex is right alongside clipping toenails.

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  • It's cheating if your wife doesn't know about it and also will have a negative reaction to it. Do both of you a favour and file for divorce if you are really that bothered by lack of sex and she has already said she doesn't want anything to do with sex.

    • Why would anyone want a divorce and ruin their marriage? Maybe the man likes living with his wife and talking with her everyday and doesn't want that to end? Maybe the man doesn't want to lose his house and half his bank account? Why can't he satisfy his need for sex in secret?

    • Because that's automatically cheating if his wife doesn't know. Be a man and tell her at least instead. It's unfair for her.

    • So is it cheating if he buys a gum without letting her know? If sex is not important to most women then I don't understand why it suddenly becomes important if he has it with another woman. It's not like he's starting a relationship with a prostitute, he's just paying for sex then kicking her out the door.

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  • Yes, it is cheating if you are doing it behind your wife's back without her knowing. If you want to fix your sex life, go to a couples therapist; don't look outside the marriage, unless you are willing to end it.

    • Sex therapists are joke. A male sex therapist would say "Do not touch eachother for 3 months then come back here. Trust me I've seen it work." A female sex therapist "Do you cuddle and kiss? That is sex already! What are you complaining about? Sex is a lot more than just genitals and orgasms! You men are so obsessed with your disgusting sausages! 300 dollars pls."

    • How do you know what they would say if you've never been to one? It seems like you are not wanting to fix your sex life, but rather are trying to justify cheating. Besides, couples therapists act as mediators in order to foster communication between a husband and wife; something you are clearly lacking in your marriage. If you are not open to getting help for your marriage, get a divorce.

    • I've seen what they say cause they write articles on the internet all the time.

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  • It's cheating.
    Unless they've agreed to an open relationship.

    If there's not a really good reason not to, he should look into divorce.

  • If any man who is married and he has sex with another woman whether she is a prostitute or not is cheating.

    As well any man who is married and his wife has not had sex with him in 5 years there is a major problem and he should have gotten rid of her a long time ago.

    The best thing for the man to do is get divorced immediately then go out and bang whoever he wants.

  • Having sex with anyone outside of your relationship is cheating.

  • It's okay to seek out counseling, not prostitutes, you still made a vow, "better or worse" doesn't just mean "while the sex is good"

  • Yeah it's cheating no matter how you look at it.

  • the grass is greener where you water it.
    could be all sorts of reasons why she is never in the mood for intimacy.
    maybe he is a lousy husband.

    • it is cheating

    • More likely cause sex is not important to women in general. It's not a physical need for them like it is for men.

    • no you need to put in the effort and not just in the bedroom. when a woman feels unloved she will not give love in return.

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  • It's cheating

  • This woman's argument is self justifying, and her decision apparently unilateral. So while it would be cheating to use a prostitute, she's put the guy in a very difficult position.

  • First of all. Yes it absolutely is cheating. Second of all who the fuck does not have sex in 5 years and still stays?

    • "who the fuck does not have sex in 5 years and still stays" Most married men.

    • Source?

  • No man you can't do that
    It's cheating
    There are so many techniques to get into mood
    Watch intimate scenes together in a mve
    Start your work
    But don't show your emotion is to do sex
    Go with the flow

  • LOL don't get married! That being said, if my partner wouldn't give me a lay at least a few times a week then I'm out.

    • I see the downvotes. Hey ladies, I'm just telling it like it is. I know there's plenty of you out there who'd not consider me because of my low income or because I'm two inches away from being six feet tall.

  • I would divorce her if it didn't make me broke

  • Of course it's cheating.. lol what you think it is?

  • Usually no but 5 years damn... maybe yes?

  • Yes it is. Even if she has a medical condition she must understand that a man is a man and that it is in his nature that he wants to fuck a woman. Feel his cock going inside a girl's pussy.
    If she does not have a medical condition her denying sex is grounds for divorce all in your favor. If the law is not such, then who written the law is a faggot.

  • Nah, he should leave his wife if she's cuckolding.

  • Kinda complicated because the man only do that to relieve sexual desire but maybe it's also considered as cheating.