Is he actually cumming?

My boyfriend is 20. When we have sex, he usually cums in me. I am on birth control. But when he orgasms in me, his cum is a clear-ish, gray-ish color and it has a thin consistency when it runs out of me. It also doesn't take very long to come out sometimes because it's so watery. I'm wondering if this is just precum and maybe he's stopping too soon.. but that wouldn't make sense because he moans and after he cums, I can feel him twitching for a bit and the liquid that runs out of me smells kinda like bleach and that's what cum smells like to me. But on the other hand, when I give him blowjobs or handjobs, his cum has a more whitish color and is a bit thicker. Is he not actually cumming inside me since his cum is thin and a clear-ish gray color inside my vagina but thicker and more white after a bj or hj? Maybe during sex he is only precumming? But the liquid that runs out of me is definitely more than a few drops and smells like bleach. Is he actually coming during sex? and why is it more thin and watery when he cums inside me vs it being thicker and whiter during other forms of sexual play?
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  • Semen changes consistency when ejaculated inside the vagina because it is mixed with your vaginal fluids. This will make it more runny and sometimes not as "solid" looking and clear. The more fluids your vagina produces, the more clear and runny the semen will be.

    The smell and even the taste will also be different due to the mixing of both fluids.

    Pre-cum doesn't release all at once but throughout the session until orgasm and usually is only a dribble here and there, so I don't believe what you described would be Pre-cum. Pre-cum is also almost always clear and has no colour.

    Essentially, it is different because it is not just semen from him, but mixed semen and vaginal fluid.

    • It's nothing to worry about

    • Thank you for clearing this up. I appreciate the help. And his cum runs out of me immediately after he cums. Is my vagina weak if I can't hold the cum in for at least a little while after sex? I've heard some girls say that their bf's cum is still coming out of them the next day. My bf's cum doesn't even stay in me for an hour after sex.. lol not that it matters but could it mean something about my vagina?

    • I curious about that as well , cause next to all the lady's i have came inside of they same hours later there still leaking but. That could just be a turn on for me that enjoy doing , I honestly don't know. But I'm wanting to know

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  • Ejaculate viscosity varies almost as widely as the number of men. If he's not experiencing any discomfort, then I'd say that 's just how he is.

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  • Its nothing, cum can be very different.

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  • Enjoy and have fun , I hope for you 2 the best

  • What you're noticing is the normal change in consistency of his semen after it leaves his body. It's normal for it to become watery after a few minutes. For my ejaculations, even if I cum outside a vagina (like from a handjob or masturbation), my cum turns watery after a few minutes. Which makes sense because semen is 90% water.

  • He is definitely cumming. It is probably thinner since it is mixing with you natural wetness. Also the thicker part of his cum is probably sticking inside of you and just the thinner stuff is running out witch tends to be clearer.

  • Pre cum

    • Ok. But isn't precum like a few drops for most men? the amount that comes out of me after sex is definitely more than a few drops. And it smells like bleach.

    • True and fet him to get it checked out

    • I don't want to bring it up to him because he seems to be enjoying it and I feel him throbbing most of the time after sex. I'm just worried that I'm not pleasing him well enough with my vagina since his cum is so watery and thin.