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We were having phone s**, I was in the mood at first but then he kept staring at p o r n, and his headphones would disconnect so I kept having to wait on him to reconnect his headphones or at least notice they came out. I don't have an issue with the p o r n thing by the way, it's one of the things we enjoy including. Anyways, I still wanted to help him. I did not tell him that I wasn't in the mood anymore because I felt it'd be a mood killer. After helping him out, and satisfying him, I let him know that I do enjoy helping even if I'm not doing anything. He took that as me faking. I explained to him that it's ok if we help each other when we're not in the mood. He's helped me out before. I get off on him being handling business so he will leave me on the phone while he's at work to hear me get off on him being a businessman. He will walk away and talk dirty to me really quick and then go back to working to get me going even more. I don't take it as him being fake, he's just helping me and wanting to satisfy me lol. I don't know why he's getting all offended. However, we did just have a discussion on how I faked a lot of orgasms in my previous relationship because he asked me.
He ended up hanging up on me at 10:30 PM and I texted him saying "you didn't have to hang up on me baby." He didn't answer. He called me back at midnight and at 12:20 AM knowing I work the next morning. This morning I said good morning and that I love him and said to call me when he has a chance because we need to have a talk. He responded with a "Yeah I'll call later." No good morning back, no I love you back, nothing. I just think it's pretty childish, but I also think he's ashamed. When his headphones kept disconnecting, he made it seem like it was me, but he knows the headphone thing has been an issue other times during regular conversations, so he knew it was him and not me.
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1 1I had that with the internet connection while video chatting in a LDR. Weird was how video worked on her side, but very slowly if ever on my side, up to 10 minutes and not only once. She grew annoyed of that and quit with me.
Yeah I don't mind that he has those issues with his headphones. I'm not mad about it. I still wanted to satisfy him. I actually really enjoy that because it makes me feel like I'm taking care of my man too. But yeah I understand what you mean though. He probably was too scared to admit it was his fault, thinking I'd become annoyed and stop talking to him or something.
I have to admit here though that just anything distracting me gets me out of the mood, permanently so if I can't guarantee things to be stable once fixed. Maybe the connection thing stressed him.
He was preoccupied with p o r n that's why he didn't realize the headphones disconnected. So I was talking to myself and when he finally realized it, he said "babe..." in a nervous tone "you went quiet" I'm like "no you went quiet, your headphones disconnected I was talking the whole time and then waited for you to realize it." he said "No that was you." Like stop lying lol.
I guess thats why I gave up on ldr 🤷♂️
Lol right
Great now I want a girlfriend 😑
Na seemed more mad that you did not enjoy it when it was frustrating. Like you were faking liking it.
Exes did that before just childish he is so not embarrassed or he would get a new set fast!
Have you said that you love him before?
Yes, we always say I love you to each other. And I can see how that might've been the issue. Faking liking it. What would be the appropriate thing to say? I definitely don't want him feeling down about it.
For now drop it I guess let him be mad and come around. I'd make him have a hard time not getting off then I'd tell him it's okay to not get off! Giving him his own medicine. But just another time bring it up no sex involved just talking... Really often being married you do just give the other pleasure especially when pregnant! Ever look at porn too while sexting?
But why hang up and call me hours later when he knows I'm probably sleeping because I work? He could just continue to discuss it with me until he feels better about it. I know he will watch it when we're sexting and on the phone. I'll watch it while sexting too once in a while.
Cause he took a nap? a lot of guys do after or he just got busy or wanted to ignore you! So rude to do that!
Yeah, it is rude. I told him when he can to call me. I know he's not doing anything right now and is dragging on calling me. I feel he's doing it on purpose to get me to react. And I'm trying my best to not let it get to me and let him come to me.
Very manipulative has he ever before? Now it is on purpose.
Yes, he has before. He can be very manipulative.
Then maybe best to end it! He clearly does not care about your feelings! Selfishly likes you enjoying it even when you can't! Red flags all over Is it worth it?
I'm not willing to leave him. I'd just like to understand why he's doing this. If I can understand why someone does something, it helps me decide on what to do. But if I don't understand the whys, I wouldn't know why I'm leaving someone if I ever do.
He is doing it cause he was mad you did not cum and enjoy it also even though his dumb head phones killed it for you! You said he is manipulating you and you know it! He is being a jerk to you cause he wants to be cause you did not enjoy it like he did. He is punishing you for his actions! Tell him to get new headphones or no more sexting!
Yeah and it just worked because he called and was super calm while I am upset. He said he's taking away phone s e x because he said what I did was disrespectful and he doesn’t know what to believe anymore and can't trust me. Im like wtf! I didn't do anything!! He said “we will talk later.” I said F THAT. I was so mad! Ugh im mad I fell in the trap
Yuck that pig! Course your mad any women would be! Just text no talk after you find out how he will be manipulating you... The reasons block him!