Is he faking his orgasms now?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 almost 5 years. I am on birth control pill. When he used to come inside me a couple years ago, I would feel his penis twitch during his orgasm and after. But now, I dont really feel him twitching when he comes anymore. Is that normal or does that mean he isn't coming with me? I used to be able to feel the twitch and now I can't. Does that mean I've gotten loose or that he isn't cumming as hard anymore? We're in our early 20s and have sex very frequently. He promises that he actually cums and I see it drip back out of me and down my legs after sex.. but I don't know.

[RemoErdosain]

If it drips back out of you after sex, he DEFINITELY isn't "faking it". By the way, there's no such thing as a man faking his orgasms, come on

[Asker]

Why can't I feel the twitching of his penis anymore? I used to be able to and now i can't. Maybe he's not cumming hard with me anymore?

[RemoErdosain]

If it drips out of you, he's most definitely coming. As for the twitching, I don't know what's going on there, but I can guarantee that he's coming, and, if he's coming, he's reaching his orgasm, so don't worry about the rest

[Hannahm67]

So what I would guess is that he has probably been jerking off more because of whatever reason and thus is more spent so when he cums in you the orgasm is not as hard and he produces less cum. Just talk to him about it. Maybe vanilla sex has gotten boring and he wants to try something else whatever it is you should talk to him about it.

[Asker]

Our sex life is far from vanilla. But I understand what you mean. Thanks

[Wise4myage]

I'm guessing you should be able to tell if he's cumming or not, because you've been together for a long time. Maybe he's just cumming less?

[Asker]

Maybe I've gotten loose, which is why I can't feel him twitch anymore?

[Wise4myage]

Loose how? I don't see that happening unless you had a baby.

[Asker]

No, i haven't had kids. I'm just wondering why I can't feel him cum anymore. Maybe he's not cumming as hard as he used to with me or something?

[Wise4myage]

That's my guess, but have you asked him if he's cumming less?

[Asker]

No, when it drips out of me, there seems to be quite a bit. It runs down my legs and stuff. And he always moans at the end and says it feels great. I'm just worried about why I can't make him cum as hard as I used to.

[Wise4myage]

I think you're overthinking this situation and you have nothing to worry about.

[Asker]

Okay. Thank you. I just thought I was always supposed to feel his dick twitching if he's cumming. Other girls say that they always feel a twitch when their man comes in them. I was just curious about why I couldnt feel it anymore. Lol

[Wise4myage]

Your welcome and I hear what your saying. I say ask him about it, but If he says it feels great, then all is well, lol.

[DrippingHoney]

If it leaks out, he's obviously cumming

[Asker]

People keep telling me that if I do not feel him twitch during orgasm, what is coming out of me after sex is likely his precum.

[boggboss]

If you see it come out how are you still asking you are being crazy paranoid

[Valnac]

Why are you overthinking it.
Just enjoy it!

[Asker]

People keep telling me that if I do not feel him twitch during orgasm, what is coming out of me after sex is likely his precum.

[Valnac]

Precum is usually a drip or two, orgasm produces about a teaspoonful.

[Asker]

So precum wouldn't be enough to drip down to my thighs?

[Valnac]

No, it would take huge amounts for it to run out of you.

[Anonymous]

There's no way he has enough precum for you to notice it dripping out of your vagina after sex. That's definitely semen, and he's definitely orgasming inside you. If you're concerned, you should talk to him about it.

[Anonymous]

Does any jism leak out of you after sex?

[Asker]

Yes it leaks out of me after sex, but I can't feel his penis twitch anymore like I used to when he came.

[Asker]

We're only in our early 20s, so I dont think it's a dysfunction or anything. I'm just worried that I can't make him cum hard anymore or something.

[Opinion Owner]

if there is jism then he is not faking the orgasms but I see what you're saying about them not being as strong. Could be that he is jerking it to porn or some other reason

[Asker]

I'm not sure. Porn maybe? But I dont see why he would need that. We have sex daily. Sometimes even twice a day. Lol But he gets hard for me easily, so I think he's still attracted to me.. I just dont know why he's not cumming as hard as he used to. We have sex a lot more now due to the fact that we have better schedules, so maybe he was cummkng harder back then because he didn't get sex quite as much?

[Asker]

*cumming

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe its not related to porn. just throwing ideas out there