Is he gay for wanting this?

My boyfriend recently asked me to start fingering his asshole when I'm going down on him. I'm not sure how I feel about this. Than he started talking randomly about "pegging" or being pegged by me. Opinions?
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  • For the majority of guys, a finger up the ass means being in the doctors office for a prostate exam. I'm not a fan of the exam, but I'm also not a fan of prostate cancer, so here we are.

    I view pegging as being more of a fetish and less about being gay. After all, if he wanted a chick with a dick he could find a TS, Ladyboy, femboy, cross dresser, or whoever else with XY chromosomes is running around in women's clothing, to do the deed.

    He likes you- and he trusts you to the point that he now wants you to participate in his fetish/fantasy with him. You can be flattered by his trust, yet still unwilling to perform the act that he wants you to do. It's your call.

  • Finger up the asshole is one thing, but being pegged is something that should arouse your suspicions.

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  • A prostate massage enhances sex especially oral sex and intensifies a man's orgasm. This has nothing to do with sexual orientation. Some guys can be made to cum just from a prostate massage alone without even touching the genitals at all.

  • He's not gay, he just knows that prostate stimulation feels good, and he trusts you enough to talk to you about it

  • yup.

  • I don't think so. He just understands his anatomy and knows that the prostate is anterior (towards the front) of the anus. Try slightly different angles until you find his favorite. Then if available, try a milking table and let gravity help you out.

  • Don’t do that

  • Not for me, but I don’t think it means you are guy. I know a couple guys that like it. I don’t think they are gay.

  • The male equivalent of the g spot is only accessible through the ass. Anal stimulation feels good for a lot of people

  • People looks funny trying to justify uncontrolled lust.

    They will tell you no its not gay and prostate massage. Finger, strapon or real penis what's the difference? Nothing something goes in and out your ass... When a woman wear strapon she is simulating male parts ( a man with boobs and plastic penis ) ... So does meat makes you gay but plastic keeps you straight 😂😂😂🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️.

    The so called straight guys who gets pegged just afraid of shame and don't want to feel guilty.

    ** Please this answer is for the asker not to discuss with people who disagree with me I'm not looking for a debate now.

    • I totally agree. It's why when women stimulate themselves with shower heads, it means they want to have sex with a faucet.

    • loool

  • why don't girls understand that a MANS g spot, is found through his asshole. He literally wants you to start stimulating his g spot. that doesn't make him gay, that just means he wants an ultimate orgasm, like you!

  • If you are a guy he is gay

    • Gay Means Being With A Man Not A Woman…

    • I said that. When she is a guy her boyfriend is gay but she is not a guy so her boyfriend is not gay

  • yes kind of.

  • Google prostate massage

    • He is not gay

  • Absolutely Not, Being With A Woman Sexually And Asking Her To Finger Or Use Toys On His Asshole Does Not Make Him Gay...
    Every Nerve Ending In Your Body, Ends In The Asshole, The Feeling When Stimulated Is Beyond Amazing...

  • I don't think it means he's gay. He just enjoys being stimulated there. If you're not into it politely tell him no.