Is he into me or does he only see me as a friend?

[Leahhh2229]

This guy I like always makes plans with me to travel around and do things together and we always hang out, but he never makes a move and I know he's physically attracted to me. We have talked about how much we enjoy each other's company and he's introduced me to some of his friends and wants me to meet his roommate and have dinner with them both. He's slept over a few times, but it's been innocent, we did cuddle last night though, and he held me tight and got a massive boner but no moves we made. never tried to kiss me or anything when he's had so many opportunities. Is he just waiting on me to make the move first? Normally guys in the past who like me will just go for it and try when I give them an in but maybe he's just really polite. He is a really nice guy but I don't want to move in if he isn't super into me. I was the one who initiated the spooning which he was all for. Maybe he is just shy, I don't know about his past relationships and how he was with his ex's. I have known him for a while but this is the first time we've done so much together.

[MrCommodore]

1991feb girl asked identical question about 15 mins earlier, same person I presume?

[Leahhh2229]

Yes, the post deleted and my page froze up so I came to my other account and this one worked fine

[Leahhh2229]

Do you have any input? I truly am confused

[MrCommodore]

Yeah sure, look it seems clear that he is attracted but is holding back. Maybe he isn't sure if you are into him romantically?

[Leahhh2229]

I definitely like him, so I should make my feelings for him clearer. I'm just surprised he didn't try anything yet, at least to test the waters, but he has been bolder lately. Like finding little excuses to touch me.

[MrCommodore]

Yeah it's obvious that he finds you attractive, give some clear hints, or just kiss him.

[Leahhh2229]

Next time I see him, when the time is right I will.

[nawtee_me]

Maybe he needs to know how you feel about him. He might not want to ruin a friendship?

[Leahhh2229]

That is a possibility. Maybe instead of saying I enjoy his company I need clarify what I mean. If he only wants to be my friend I wouldn't mind.

[Anonymous]

Treasur him😍😍