Is he that turned off by stretch marks?

[Anonymous]

I have been seeing this guy and progressing slowly.
1st encounter: we madeout
2nd encounter : we madeout and I gave him a bj
3rd encounter : we madeout, he fingered me and I gave him a bj.
But on the 3rd encounter he really wanted me to strip down and I kind of said that I didn't want to. He also wanted to eat me out and I said maybe next time.

Now, I texted him on my way back home to tell him the reason why I am quite shy to let myself be naked in front of him. I recently lost a shit tone of weight fast and it has left me with awful stretch marks everywhere (breast, belly, back, legs, arms, forearms, in between my legs, anyways you get the picture : everywhere). I thought it was best to explain to him where I am coming from.
I want to show myself to him and I trully want to be touched and experience an awesome sex life but it is quite difficult.
Now he responded by saying that he knows the feeling because when he was a teen he experienced awful acne and found himself unnatractive. While I get the point, his acne went away but my stretch marks are here to stay; forever.
He did not say to me that I was beautiful either way or that he wouldn't mind! I would have really wanted some positive feedback of some sort.
So I just asked him if he wanted us to continue or like stop because I know it can be a huge turnoff for some and that is ok.
He simply answered that he enjoys it and wants to continue like we've been doing so far and that I don't have to undress myself in any way.

I don't know how to take his answer?
He really doesn't dig me, does he?
I am just a girl who gives him something close to sex and that's all, aren't I?

[MissLogical]

He just wants you to be comfortable, he said that he understood because of his acne, and even though that went away he probably remembers how he felt then. It's probably something he doesn't care about but he wants you to be comfortable with it.

[Anonymous]

Yoo you overthinking too much... if u have a problem.. fuck around in the dark

[Asker]

I tried haha but he said he wanted to see me. Oups...

[Opinion Owner]

The fuck that nigga... has no respect for what makes you comfortable😝

[Asker]

Yeah haha You're funny

[NJ_Casanova]

You are over-thinking things... and actually making him think about them more than he would have (shared too much too fast).

You basically are sabotaging your relationship/pushing him away. Girls are NOTORIOUS for doing that.

[Asker]

Maybe. But I would not have been comfortable if I had not done this! I had to share it with him, I just had too. Did it sabotage our relationship? Maybe.. I'll tell you in a few days if he doesn't text back. And if he doesn't well... my bad!

[NJ_Casanova]

I think him saying, "Now he responded by saying that he knows the feeling because when he was a teen he experienced awful acne and found himself unnatractive." might be your saving grace... you might not think it's similar but he obviously thinks he can relate. FYI, MOST girls have some stretch marks. I've seen 100lb girls with them to single moms. Most porn videos I can see them... and they don't mean anything to most guys... especially to guys that care. A nice guy will have more of a problem with YOU seeing yourself as lesser than he sees you. If He doesn't seem to mind take it as he thinks you are perfect and not think about them... just how he's making you feel.

[NJ_Casanova]

Thanks for the MHO vote;-)

[Heclingybad]

How bad are we talking here?

[Asker]

Bad. I mean they aren't dark or purple, they are white but they all leave heavy indentations in my skin. If he would pass a hand on my belly it would feel very bumpy (by default of finding a different term).

[Heclingybad]

Wow... if he loves you it wouldn’t matter.

[Asker]

There is no love, I think! It's too early to tell. But I'll try to remember that. Thanks

[SandNigga]

If you're fine with it, then he's fine with it

[Anonymous]

He Better Not Be Turned Off By Stretch Marks...