Is he trying to get me pregnant?

[saltwater84]

Hello there , I have a casual relationship filled with lots of love since 3,5 years with a man, we had always used condoms but I don't take pill or any other birth control, he is fine with it and respect it since the beginning no problem. it has happened maybe5 times in the past that we had no condoms and he would just pull out and never failed. A few days ago we had sex , I know he had condoms , the Sexe was OK but nothing to turn us into the stage of losing sight and just forget it all about the condoms it was super chill. he did not put one on , and ejaculate inside of me on purpose very clearly!! And then curled around my body in a very cute way. without saying one word about this. But instead being more tender than even usual and asking for some caress in his hair was not sure about if he had come inside me or sheets so did not say anything but in the working it became very clear as all his semence scroll down my legs He is not kind of guy who says that he don't like condoms feels finding excuses for not putting one , he has always some. so I find it strange , in what situation would you do this? What is that behaviour? Thanks a lot !

[jacquesvol]

My last ex got knocked up that way by her new boyfriend. She thinks he did it on purpose. (to be sure she would not go back to me)

[saltwater84]

That's what I am wondering. I am going on a world tour trip for half a year in about 2 weeks, I wonder if he do that to make sure I will come back? He has all my life , stuff , so clearly, I will come back!

[jacquesvol]

Or he wants to stop you from going: a 6 month wofld trip and a pregnancy could be problematic.^~^

[saltwater84]

Why cannot he simply says "please don't go?" I talked too him about these and he said "amazing go go !" Then when I told him I booked my tickets he was clearly chocked and asked me for how long I would go. He has put on someevidences that he will miss me. then started to be distant , busy but when together at the moment he is being very cuddly , vulnerable and wants more tender than sex I really want to have a child with him one day we are31 and 39 yo

[Jared____]

I don't know sorry do you think he's the kind of person that would do this?

[Babyapple]

Why are you not together?

[saltwater84]

He We are together, we even lived together but we both have some issues with the model society offer. we dont feel like seeing each other every single days , nor wants to get married or share the same house anymore. we love and respect each other very much and I could not be proud and more happy about and with someone else. we are there for each other. But we are getting older now and maybe a baby will come at some point if both of us wants to. we will then rethink our option to protect our relationship and keep the love up through routine , we have a strong relationship that we buit together , we had major crises and always managed to sort us out. as we like to say the more time goes by the more our love is strong. we just dont do the usual pattern.

[Daynada]

Umm, ask him. Hello!!

[thegreatone7]

Talk to him girl!

[saltwater84]

I am away for work for two weeks and doing want to speak this through phone, I ll have to talk next time I am down with him. it is a bit fucked up ha. I cannot help but thinking about this, it would make some soirtt oif sense we ve been together for some time , now, and I am leaving for a fair time away on travel, so he might just be scared I ll never come back so act foolishly. to make sure I won't want to stay abroad or meet someone. I mean guys were coming that before going to war :impregnated their ladies to make sure that while away they could not make up their mind and stuff hahaa

[Jared____]

Do you think he's the type of person who would do that

[saltwater84]

I don't think it is mean , it s more likely he is trying to speak with his dick on this occasion the baby subject came two years ago , and he said he was not ready but in 4 years yeah (we are both artists and business persons, we are busy and not willing to slow down down to early on our main projects. but I guess it is never the right time ha, so maybe it will just happen like this. I am 32 soon its about my time really anyway