Is he using me?

I hooked up with this guy. He said we would have sex again the next month. During the time up to the next month, we sexted and videochatted. When the next month came, he didn't ask to hook up again. I said nothing about it, and continued sexting with him for 3 months, until one day I told him how he promised me we would have sex again, and he didn't keep it. He gave some excuses, and said we would have sex. A few days later, he said "we will do it the next week". When the next week came, the pandemic began, so we decided to do it after the pandemic would be over, and the borders would be open. In the meantime, we continued to sext.
Now, 5 months later, when the situation of the pandemic is better, and the borders are open, he still hasn't asked to have sex. Whenever I ask him when will we meet, he just says " we will", but doesn't take initiative.
I'm sick of this 'string along' situation. Is he using my pics and sharing them while lying to me about meeting again? Is he keeping me around just to share my stuff to other people or over the internet?
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  • Sexting is usually a girls thing more than a guys things, as most guys prefer actual sex, so it's odd way to 'use' a girl. Technically nothing stops him from sharing your pics even if he was having sex with you, it's more a matter of trust than it's a matter of how often he has sex with you. The pandemic is also a legit excuse to decline sex, even for a guy. You can try to seduce him, tell him how much you miss his cock, and see if he can resist that, looks like you the the one who want to have sex with him again the most, so maybe you should take more initiative.

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/AManIsAlwaysEager

    • Ok, in my case, the sexting was his thing not mine cause I want the real thing, the sex. And its true, sexting requires trust which I had at first on him but when he started to string me along and lie to me I thought something was up. It looks like I'm the one who wants the sex again and I don't think I should be taking initiative. Why? Cause he doean't want it and it's not worth asking him. Cause he will give excuses and send to Hell my stupid initiatives. That's why. My experiences taught me one thing : if he wants, he will. Otherwise, let it go.

    • You might be right, but you can give him an ultimatum before you give up on your relationship.

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  • sounds like he just doesn't wanna travel for pussy, its understandable

    • That's perfectly understandable. What is not understandable is why he lied to me and strung me along.

    • well yea its fucked up that he kept your hopes up but 🤷🏽‍♂️

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  • Sexting feel really great during this pandemic shit