Is holding around a girls throat/neck or over her mouth during sex a thing?

The two recent guys I have slept with, both did these two things. Is it hot for a guy to pretend to make it hard to breathe for the girl during sex?

Is this common?
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  • It’s done a lot in porn, so… monkey see, monkey do.

    The real thing comes from a very edgy BDSM practice called breath control. It’s meant to deprive the submissive of oxygen to the point of experiencing euphoria in the same way you experience it when you can’t stop laughing hard. It’s induced by hypoxia. If that euphoria is combined with orgasm, it’s supposedly awesome. It’s potentially dangerous and fatal. You can read more here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotic_asphyxiation

Most Helpful Guy

  • Sure.
    I don't try to legitimately choke them, my hands around their neck are simply the demonstration and the reminder that I'm much larger and stronger than them.
    But they are comfortable with it because they trust me that I wouldn't actually hurt them.
    It's a mutual display of trust and a confirmation that we are both comfortable with what we are doing to each other.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I find it hot - when they do it right.
    I love being choked where it's the blood flow.

    And I do like it when he holds his hand over my mouth as well.

    All this should of course be agreed upon first, be safe and feel safe with them and have a safe word as well.

  • It's a thing, but it is dangerous. The neck is nothing to play with.

    I like to hold my breath during sex and something heightens the sensations, but it's all me and I just need to release my breath.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • That is a thing I've noticed recently. I could give or take it.

  • It’s not hot to pretend to choke, it’s better to choke. She can take it, she’s tough. Obv in a trusting environment with a safe word.

    • What did it feel like to be in that position?

    • I felt more like they had watched too much porn. Classic early/mid 20s guys

    • Why do you think it’s hot to choke? Is it guys that like to be very dominant who are in to these things?

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  • I've heard a lot of women like that. I personally don't like doing that to women

  • It is slight bdsm

  • Nope