Is it a appropriate wear for a first date? I want him to be with me but I don't want him to ask for sex?

[Anonymous]

My state is shutting down again so I'm going on a date with one guy who lives a block away. I don't want him to be sexually interested in me but I want him to be with me during this second lock down.

Is this a good dress for this purpose? Not to revealing, neither too conservative.

[Lov2PlezUgurl]

Well my opinion is that looks like it's saying fuck me now but what do I know I'm just a porn addict

[Lov2PlezUgurl]

Well I didn't expect to get most helpful opinion on that little short comment thank you very much ... P. S. . You have got sexy oozing off of you girl P. S. S. . It depends on where he's taking you or you're taking him or what you should wear if you going to a dinner and a movie I think you should just dress comfortably nice, if you're going to dinner and then to dance afterwards I think a knee length dress with some cleavage not a lot would work real well but then again with your looks honey you would look good wear and sweat pants and long-eared bunny bedroom shoes

[Dman19]

Looks good and hot

[Dman19]

LOVE THE UPDATE! You rock girl don't listen to the haters. There just jealous because there hoes have little saggy boob sacks and there pussys are cold

[AustinMan]

Depends on the guy. It's very flattering and outright sexy.

[Imcmullan]

I think its cute on you.. maybe throw a boyfriend blazer on over the shirt and some heels and your good to go.

[TheorionMage]

Best advice is to put yourself in a male mindset as you stand before your full-length mirror...

My Wife glanced over my shoulder and she's of the opinion, your choice STILL seeks emphasis of your gender rather than your personality & intellect. Realize HIS libido probably hasn't been exercised recently either... that pop song: "I didn't mean to turn you on" comes to mind.

Perhaps YOUR OWN repressed sex drive is insidiously sneakily affecting your wardrobe choices. ;)

[centerline]

you can wear whatever you want, but if a guy is looking for sex on a first date, he isn't the one you should be dating...
a date and a booty call are two different things for two different purposes, and when someone asks you out its ok to inform them its strictly a date and not a booty call...

[Hangry22]

Maybe a jacket or hoodie or something

[pajamasam]

Why would you go on a date with someone if sex is absolutely 100% off the table? Not in a day, 2 days a week 2 weeks, 2 months 2 years, never. Why? Whats the point?

A date implies that there are romantic feelings that are either

A- developing and growing
Or
B- are already strong and present.

Why have romantic feelings for someone if you know from the start sex off the table?


I think you need to have a chat with this guy about your intentions. If you lead him on your gonna fuck his head up.

[EWillke]

As much as women say it shouldn't be the case, it is. If you wear that they guy will think you're trying to attract him to your physical beauty instead of what's inside your head and heart.

You are probably the sweetest lady with a bright mind but if I took you on a date and you were wearing that, there wouldn't be a second date.

[ohshee]

He will love it. But you could wear a box and the guy is going to want to have sex with you

[TheLawAroundHere]

I used to tell my sister that "you might not be a slut, but you are wearing the uniform and i got confused"

Not for nothing. But if you wear that, he's gonna ask to fuck. Id change, if it was me doin it.

But to tell you the truth, you could wear a feed sack and the guy will still want to do the ol' horizontal mambo. You are built like a brick shithouse. That means "very well". Haha

[LiamSawyer]

He'll be trying to slide his hand up under that sexy top pretty quick. Wear something that tucks in unless you want your boobs played with.

[User626]

Wow yes

[bowenw]

That outfit would turn-on any guy. If you don't want him getting horny, I suggest something like you suggested, a hoodie or sweatshirt.

[GoogleWasMyIdea]

Yeah looks pretty classy. Latina?

[Sophia001]

This is good

[ColHathi]

"I'M A SLUT. A PROUD ONE." - 👍

"I never charge money for sex. I always give it for free to guys who are my type.
Guys who pay for my dinner and buy expensive gifts for me, I never sleep with them because I'm not a whore you'll sleep with them just to repay."

- Good, but just be aware that some guys might not see it that way and might not appreciate you accepting that stuff without putting out. That whole deal with letting the guy pay and letting them buy the girl gifts is messed up anyway. Why not split it? Sometimes they pay and get you gifts, and sometimes you pay and get them gifts. The alternative is silly and problematic at best.

[ColHathi]

Not my business ofc.

[winterfox10]

You look really sexy in that, but it may be a bit too sexy for a first date.

[Andres77]

If you went on a date in a wet paper bag the guy would still want sex with you.
He's still got to control himself.

[ChiTown33]

Where what you're comfortable in. A woman who's comfortable is a woman who's happy. And a genuine (not forced) smile is the most attractive thing a woman can wear. A guy shouldn't go beyond a kiss on the first date regardless of what she's wearing

[loveslongnails]

He's going to be sexually interested in you no matter what, so don't be dumb about it. Whether you get asked for sex on the first date has almost everything to do with the guy you choose, and less with what you wear unless you're totally shameless about it.

[NorthwestRider]

Your clothes your choice