Is it a bad thing for a grown man to be a virgin?

Is it a bad thing?
Is it a bad thing for a grown man to be a virgin?
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Is it because they would become attached to that person since they have never done it before also?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm a virgin myself. There seems to be a real judgmental issue with virgins who are in their early twenty or later age. People treat me differently because of my level of sexual experience. I have draw a conclusion that people want to avoid the pressure of being someone's "first" or hold preconceived notions about what virgins are like, it seems that while slut-shaming may be on the decline, prude shaming is on the rise. Food for thought

    • Why do people somtimes have a issuer being the first person?

    • Possibly because its a lot of work. Its like... do you prefer to teach someone new about intimate things or do you prefer someone who already knows. That's what is weighting on their mind.

  • It seems like everyone wants a partner who knows what they're doing, and in order for that to be a thing you have to have had your first time. I'm not worried about whether a lady has or hasn't had it but I definitely feel the pressure since it is more difficult for ladies to get satisfaction n such

    • I couldn't say it better myself

    • Are you afraid because they would get attached to you is that it?

    • If they have never done it and you just don't want to hurt them is that also why?

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Nothing wrong with that

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  • It's not "bad" like it's wrong. But it is hard for men to be virgins because women tend to look down on them and worse, men perceive this and it makes them feel undesirable.

  • No, nothing wrong with it. Im a 22 year old virgin and neither ashamed nor proud of it. Just humble. I will lose it when the time comes, but I have no desire to lose it with just anyone. I'm not waiting for marriage either though, just someone I like a lot.

    • Personally I'd say no to the update, but I don't have experience to back it up.

  • Yeah, it shows you're too undesirable to get women.

  • After 30 maybe yes

  • Nope. Not at all.

  • Is everyone is free for themselves

  • I'm virgin and I mean one person was surprised, I have no idea why, anyway I think it's generational thing, do i feel dumb or less of man? No not because of my virginity. Maybe your father's take or perception is this "damn that guy can't close a deal."

  • Life is short baby don't be a steriotype

    • I am just asking a question

    • Why are you saying that

    • The person isn't good at clarifying things. He's just implying that its okay to be different when it comes to lack of sexual experience.