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Is it a deal breaker if your girl isn't shaved down there?

No joke, I've tried all kinds of razors and shaving gel that's supposed to be gentle on the skin and many other methods... But I still end up with irritated skin afterwards. It isn't pretty and far from smooth if you get me...
So I've kinda given up on shaving all together down there. I got sensitive skin all over my body, like I can easily get irritated skin etc from even shaving my armpits.
And please don't suggest waxing, I've tried on my legs but I couldn't finish an leg without crying, so I don't even want to imagine to do it around my vagina..
*I do trim down there with a small scissor, so it's not completely natural...
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  • I wouldn't mind a bit of hair down there, although I would definitely have a problem if it would get in my nose while trying to eat the pussy or if it would make the process uncomfortable.

    But if you do want to shave down there, for you, because you like the feel or how it looks or even if you would do it for a man, but you can't, because you have very sensitive skin, I would definitely suggest trying a Philips One Blade. It's an electric razor made especially for men with sensitive skin on their face and I can say for sure that it does indeed work very good for sensitive skin. It's about 50 bucks but I definitely say it's worth it. It cuts pretty close, as in you can't really see the hair anymore and if you rub your hand in the direction of growth the skin feels very smooth, only when you rub your hand in the opposite direction tou can feel the hair, but just a bit. Definitely give it a try. And generally, razors made for men are made with sensitive skin in mind, because if you have a rash on your cheek or around your lips everybody can see it, but if you have a rash on your pussy, it's pretty well hidden. Alternatively, you could try those Braun electric razors for women, but I tried my mom's once before buying a normal hair razor and that thing pulls the hair with the purpose of achieving a smooth finish, but it's really painful.

  • I'm a guy obviously.
    First, i wouldn't turn you away if you had flowing curls so long as you looked after keeping clean. Even for oral. Tickling my nose or a random hair in my throat is not going to repel me.
    I use a hair cutter with a long "crew cut" attachment. It leaves enough hair to lay over and not be spiky. The market is full of options for that.
    My underarm hair is wispy, about like hers. I do nothing with it.

    Is it a deal breaker if your girl isn't shaved down there?

    You should not have to groom other than keeping clean and we should not expect it.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I have the same problem. Super sensitive skin down there, every time I shave (I use a mans razor) I get red bumps and get super itchy after a few hours, I only get like two hours of smoothness and then it all goes to hell. What I did at first was doing the bikini line with tweezers. It takes a couple of hours but it's less painful than waxing, pretty tolerable, and the rest I trim down with a beard trimmer machine. After a while of using the tweezers you loose sensitivity and can move on to waxing the bikini line. I use hard wax beans (that's the wax that hardens on your skin and don't need to use strips) rather than hot wax. I don't know why but it hurts less. I've had to made my peace with knowing that I will most likely never be able to be completly bare down there. Maybe one day I'll try to go to a place to get brazilian wax done but I fear the pain. I've been recommended laser a lot but I don't have the money to do it right now.

  • Lesbian here. Tbh i am not bothered. I know how hard it is to shave aha. So naaa and if someone is. Then move on. Don't make yourself uncomfortable for their pleasure

    • Omg I love that you don’t care and honestly I think you would rock my world 😍 you seem very experienced and would also love to go down on you

    • Haha aww bless u. I am enagaged but im very flattered

    • If you ever just want to flirt there is no harm in that 😉 I would love to get know more about you if you are interested 😊

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  • No, not for me.

  • I once totally shaved myself down there with a razor and it was so painful and sore, and then i got ingrown hairs, and i never did that ever again, so i know exactly where you are coming from.
    You could always use clippers, i use my beard trimmer to trim myself as short as possible.
    Going back to your original question, is it a deal breaker if your girl isn`t shaved down there. Absolutely not at all for me. I don`t mind if they have hair down there, but not necessarily a massive bush though

  • No ! It doesn't matter

  • No problem! I'd prefer that you be comfortable and happy than itchy and self-conscious. I'd be excited just to get close to it, regardless of how you style it. Bushy and natural can require the use of a hand to make cunnilingus easier, but don't think a bit of hair is going to stop me. Trimmed is actually my favourite - there's something uncomfortably pre-pubescent about a hairless vulva.

  • Not at all. Just stop.

  • A guy needs to accept you as you are

    • You are very pretty ☺️are you shaved down there

    • @kittenbits yes

    • Please tell me you are into girls 😍

  • For some it will be for others not

  • That would never be a deal breaker for me. I personally don't have a preference either way but I would want a girl to do (or not do) what's best for the health of her sensitive skin down there.

  • In no way a deal breaker. Its just a way of making something that isn't the prettiest to look at look better. Nicely trimmed is more actually more effort than shaving in my opinion and I like that.

  • Pretty much. I'd stick my dick down there but definetely wouldn't go down on her. So if I found a girl who does shave down there she'd get my preference over one who didn't.

  • I think trimming is fine, but doing it with scissors seems dumb.

  • Its deal breaker if you shave ot trim. 100% natural, the way God made you is my deal.

  • It's fine

  • Not if I cared about her or hell no it's NOT a deal breaker I'm no quiter! But if it's a big deal to you have tried waxing my wife couldn't shave but could handle getting waxed also I've always had problems shaving my neck but know I have a razor that has like the sensitive skin strip then 2 blades then another strip then 2 blades then another strip and I use the ultra sensitive shaving cream and I have no more problems. But if you're with a good guy it won't matter to him

  • I prefer a clean shaven pussy, but a little landing strip is sexy too

  • Not deal-breaker.

    Has your aesthetician ever used lidocaine numbing cream before the actual waxing?

  • Just don't expect oral and you don't have to worry about it anymore.

  • trimming won't hurt your skin. there's no excuse to have a huge jungle down there.

  • It's not, if you ask me.

  • Dealbreaker? Ehhh... I'd consider it, yeah. She needs to at least be trimmed.

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