Is It A Dealbreaker If Your So Says Sex Isn't Their Top Priority?

Question

and also, in a relationship, is sex the top priority for you?

OfMiceandMen · Accepted Answer

Sex is not my top priority by any means. As you grow older, you appreciate good quality sex that lasts longer between sexual periods, you don't need it every day or every other day.

You do however, want/need someone who is your best friend and you can trust. So those two qualities would be my top priority. Let's face it, you spend more time out of bed than you do in bed having sex, so prioritizing something that accounts for 1 to 2% of your weekly activities in life doesn't add up.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Sex is a high priority in my relationships, but I wouldn't call it the top priority, and I don't think most people would. For me, it's a must-have, but I don't spend the entire day thinking about it or focusing on it. Nearly every girl I've ever been with has been essentially the same - they found sex important, but not their top concern.

So, no, it wouldn't be a deal-breaker if it wasn't their top priority - only if it wasn't a priority at all.

Potteplante · Accepted Answer

It isn't a top priority but it is a priority. I want sex, I enjoy sex - sex makes me feel good. But life happens, dry spells happen - I won't be crying if I don't get laid in a month or two - but as long as we always get back to it. (been over 2 years now - might cry soon tho. 😂)

Quackthulu2 · Accepted Answer

It would be more concerning if sex was their top priority. Don’t get me wrong, sex is important. But if it’s the most important aspect of a person’s life that person clearly has nothing going for them.

katiesmuff · Answer

Well if sex is your top priority, that is where the problem exists. Sex is great and wanted but other things in life come in ahead of sex.

SnowedIn · Answer

Not a deal breaker and not top priority. Sex is fun and sex is important but there's lots of other aspects to a relationship.

rosemilk · Answer

i'd be totally fine with that.

MemeSupreme · Answer

no, i think talking about any boundaries/needs from the beginning is pretty important and that isn't just about sex, but anything. i talk about them with anyone i date

boggboss · Answer

But what does that mean

MementoMori777 · Answer

No that's good

Agape93 · Answer

Nope. Sex is important, but it's not even top 5 of my priorities

Dargil · Answer

No and No.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

If sex is the top priority we are sex buddies and nothing more.

LovingJo · Answer

Maybe not  "top"  priority, but it's up there!!! So, it would depend on the specifics. I've been in relationships like that before and they don't work, for  many  reasons!!! 💯

dreamstar72 · Answer

Depends on how much you are in love with whoever

exitseven · Answer

No, sex is not a top priority with me either but it would be a deal-breaker if there was no sex

AdithyaR · Answer

Not really, it's an important aspect sure but there's other things more important to me in a relationship.

call_me_scar · Answer

Nope knowing your partner should be

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I don't think sex should be top priority in a relationship but if they need to say that I'd assume that sex is like really low priority for them and that's a deal breaker.