Is it a red flag that straight after we have sex my boyfriend puts his body towards the fan and checks his sports on his phone?

I didn’t think much of it until I saw stuff online about a guy going directly to checking his phone after sex meaning that he isn’t interested in you
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  • No it’s not really a red flag… But it can be disrespectful at times. You just need to communicate that with him. Tell him that you want him to cuddle with you or be affectionate instead of watching sports.


    My boyfriend does the same sometimes. He will roll over and grab towels and immediately goes on his phone to watch videos or play games. I don’t have much of an issue because I know that he constantly needs to be mentally stimulated (adhd brain lol).


    I just told him I want him to relax, come sit and talk after, and pay attention to me, and he did. If your boyfriend still doesn’t do that after you communicated it with him, it could be a red flag - It’s disrespectful and inconsiderate.

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  • I don't think so not everyone likes to cuddle after sex

Most Helpful Guys

  • Calling it a "red flag" might be a little dramatic, at least before giving him an opportunity to correct the bad behavior, as he's probably oblivious to the fact that he's being inconsiderate/disrespectful. Have a conversation with him about it and see how he reacts, then you can decide if it is or isn't a red flag and handle it accordingly.

  • I think it is kinda rude. I like the cuddling after sex and it often leads to round 2. Does he ever try for round 2 with you? does he make sure you have an orgasm before he looks at his phone?

    • He does but a lot of times he doesn’t want a round 2 last time though he went two rounds straight just to please me and he has always insisted on giving me oral there have been times that he’s been selfish but I've always called him out for that lol

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  • Sports are very important

    • In a serious note is it normal for a guy to think about sports right after having sex?

    • I dont think so but I've never had sex so Im not sure.

    • You should tell him you want to maybe cuddle a little after and for him not to go straight for his phone.

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  • yes, I would say so.

  • Not a red flag. But a bad behaviour. Let him know how you feel. If he continues, take revenge.
    You watch something you like on youtube straight after sex

  • It forever proves that he is a degenerate obsessive compulsive Gambler that You need to Kick To The Fucking Curb NOW!

  • Seems he just needs to get his nut off and he is done with you, especially since no cuddling or talking