Is it a thing to have a friends with benefits without sex?

[Anonymous]

is it even a thing to have a friends with benefits without sex, just making out, oral, and touching? my ex and i recently broke up and i miss the touching and sex but i dont want a relationship any time soon. but i also dont want to have sex with a guy im not dating. do other people have friends with benefits that just make out and go down on each other? is that even a good idea?

[Kimosabe]

I'm not really in favor of the whole friends with benefits thing; it lowers the value of a physical relationship and the stability associated with it. When you find a lasting relationship, are you going to feel it's ok to have varying degrees of physical intimacy with other people? There is genuine value in monogamy. You need to know you can trust your partner to be exclusively your partner. That's security. No security, no happiness. We've gotten lost in only thinking about the pleasure we're going to have in the next five minutes, and kick away anything that gets in the way of that. Time for growing up is here.

[Anon2345]

It's possible if the two are over each other and don't really text much but just text when they are in need of a fuck session or miscellaneous sexual activities

[XRabbitHeartX]

You can be friends with benefits without having actual sex. Oral is still a form of sex. But it is truly a dumb idea to hookup with a ex. It is one of the stupidest things girls. do and then they end up crying about it later.

[MiaJay]

Friend with benefits it's for sex. If you don't want to have sex with a guy you're not dating you should stay single. What benefits is the friend having if you aren't having sex with him?

[kayano]

As long as you are still having sexual contact, it's still technically friends with benefits

[Chubby_Tasha_]

yep... this is possible.. I had few friends with benefits like this.. when I was single... it was quite fun..

[nowhere_dani]

Still friends with benefits

[Melina1982]

It is a friend with benefits, and oral is sex.

[Intraluminal]

That is a friend with benefits situation.

[vampireelf]

I mostly had friends with benefits to just go down on her.

[OlderGuy965]

Never thought of it. Not a bad thing. Just be up front about your intentions and all is good

[Jatara]

Its honestly a bad idea and of think you know that it'll probably turn out more trouble and pain than pleasure

[Words_and_Wisdom]

It wouldn't be friends with benefits without sex.

[steven463]

you could have sex online it helps with the urges honestly

[Dude01]

Yes.. No doubt

[Anonymous]

that's how it is with most of my fwbs