Girls, is it a turn off if a guy can't cum from sex or blowjobs?

[Anonymous]

[chrissykerdock]

i kind of like it when a guy says he can't cum from a blowjob... generally they never had a girl willing to give them a 15-20 or even a 30 minute blowjob... they just need to relax and know your going to keep sucking until they cum... from what i understand from what they tell me a lot of girls will only suck so many minutes before giving up... sometimes getting a guy to cum from a blowjob means sucking up to them too... let them know you don't doing it... know to just worry about their head and not worry about deepthroat... enjoy it don't rush it... if you like giving slow sensous blowjobs then do it that way don't feel you have to give in to them or what porn does... main thing is guys love it when your sucking them they don't really care how long as it feels good to them... don't have an attitude because they want you on your knees either.

[Asker]

I dont cum from sex either

[chrissykerdock]

tell me about your times having sex what were the girls you tried like

[Asker]

They where cute one of them is really freaky we had sex multiple times most times for a really long time and several times in one night. Last time I went soft after like 15 mins so that time sucked i had anal with her too

[chrissykerdock]

did you feel pressure from her or did she touch you appropriately did you feel comfortable with her

[Asker]

Yes I feel comfortable with her I think I just jack off too much. People on reddit where telling me about death grip syndrome. I haven’t jacked in three days. She is actually coming over in like a hour so we will se what happens. As long as I dont go soft like last time ill be happy tbh

[chrissykerdock]

tell her to rim you if you go soft

[Asker]

She rimmed me before I went soft and after

[chrissykerdock]

i thought that would be the weapon to use... you might do well if you give her spanking then tell her you want a blowjob... there might be an adrenlaine flow there... but relax with her... kiss her maybe eat her pussy that should get you in the mood.

[Asker]

I really appreciate your advice. But I think it’s defective cause I jack off too much. Today is my fourth day not jacking off at all. I think death grip syndrome de-sensitized my penis and it needs to regain its sensitivity so im gonna keep on not jacking off and see if that helps

[chrissykerdock]

good luck to you and i hope you makes this girl feel good about herself as well

[desidoll]

If he can’t cum from bj, I can understand and to me it is acceptable, since some guys can only cum from penetration. Him not being able to cum from sex is a turn off to me.

[Asker]

I can't cum from either

[Nehaagarwal]

@desidoll ever given handjobs? Can they cum from that from you giving it?

[desidoll]

@Nehaagarwal I don’t answer questions from a guy pretending to be a woman.

[Nehaagarwal]

Not a guy I’m Bisexual, have a good day.

[Nehaagarwal]

I’m a bisexual girl*

[purplepoppy]

If I can't make a guy cum he's either dead or super gay.

[Asker]

My hand just feels better

[loves2learn]

No. As long as my needs were met. I’d hope we could find a different way for him to cum.

[Nehaagarwal]

Maybe from a handjob? @loves2learn

[loves2learn]

@nehaagarwal yes. If mastrubating works better for him I could lick his balls or the tip while he strokes it.

[Nehaagarwal]

@loves2learn also why do girls spit on cocks when giving a handjob. I’m bisexual but was more experienced with girls so I don't know..

[loves2learn]

It’s to add lubrication. I prefer to suck it, then stroke it. I don’t think spitting like that is very sexy.

[Nehaagarwal]

Oh okay. Well the guys I worked it find it sexier by stroking

[sofiec]

My ex had ED, and we didn't have money for meds, and he would only get hard right as he was about to cum... and frankly, that was not fun at all, and very tedious and frustrating.

I like cum but mostly I like knowing my partner enjoyed themselves. As someone else said, if I can't make them cum then I would try to do my best to figure out how to help them, so we can enjoy our time together. Otherwise what's the point. I'd rather watch someone jerk off and finish well than struggle to get anything done myself.

Also, there are toys that can squirt and those sometimes make good replacements but not quite

[TazWax]

It would definitely fuck my sexual confidence up a bit

[Asker]

Its not the girls fault

[TazWax]

I know but I would feel that way

[Asker]

I've never cum from sex or bjs

[EmmaMary]

That sounds most unappealing.

[Asker]

What if he still pleasures you when you have sex but he just can't cum?

[EmmaMary]

That would be most disappointing so, no thank you.

[Asker]

Why is it disappointing?

[EmmaMary]

Because it would make me feel so totally inadequate and a failure at that.

[Asker]

But its not your failure its mine

[EmmaMary]

Time for me to move on... Goodbye.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Yes. How do u cum?

[Asker]

From masturbating. Thats why I stopped masturbating for past three days, my friends with benefits is supposed to come over tn. Even when I jerked off other times before we fucked I did not cum but I had no problem keeping an erection. Last time I went soft so it was a wake up call. I wanna try not to masturbate for a couple weeks

[Gwenhwyfar]

Okay

[KatherineJ]

Turn off? No, but it might make me feel like I didn’t do a good enough job.

[Asker]

My friends with benefits gives great blowjobs lot of tongue action. I think I have death grip syndrome. Today Is my fourth day not jacking off

[karaspara]

You can cum just need to relax and stop putting pressure on yourself to perform

[Asker]

I dont really put that much pressure on myse

[Asker]

Myself

[Nazgol]

Yes. I'd rather he would

[Nazgol]

* I want to see the good stuff!😆

[Anonymous]

It wouldn’t be a turn off, but it would be a let down. If I’m the only one orgasming then I’m the only one having fun. Plus I want him to come inside of me too sometimes. I’d feel selfish for asking/initiating sex if it didn’t do much for him. I want us both to enjoy sex.