Is it a turn off if I act really happy around a guy for the next half hour after sex?

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Like say we have sex, and then I still hang around the guy's place afterwards for a little while, and I act extra happy than before. Not happy as in clingy or in love or anything, just showing signs that having sex with him altered my mood in a positive way. Is that a turn on or turn off?

PositiveFlight · Accepted Answer

It definitely wouldn’t be a turn off for me for sure. I value the aftermath and the closeness that two people can feel with one another. That’s the whole basis behind the sex, is to get closer to one another and let all the happy chemicals make life bliss for both of you towards each other. More smiling, more tenderness, and feeling loved/adored. If anything, it would be a turn on and I would probably want to do it again soon thereafter.

Caliguy88 · Accepted Answer

I usually would like that. If I didn’t like you, then no. But probably if I sleep with you I really like you. I don’t often get sexual with girls I don’t really like.

Lliam · Answer

Sounds great. Not a turn off for me at all.
I only had sex with women I liked. I didn't just fuck them and leave. So I'd be really happy about the fact that she enjoyed our time together as much as I did.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

If I was the guy, that would be a good sign to see.

TheorionMage · Answer

Can't speak for other men but I'd take THAT as an intuitive compliment of "labor of Love WELL DONE" your Serotonin, Oxitocin and Dopamine levels are peaked! <3 :)

summiter · Answer

It is way hot and a turn on. I also like it when a girl stays naked with me for a long time after sex. As you know your boyfriend is happy after a great orgasm. Do you two ever go for round 2 or 3? If so does that also make you even happier?

Wish4UrB00ty · Answer

I always liked that effect!

SnowedIn · Answer

Neither a turn on nor turn off. But way better than acting like Eeyore or running out the door. But, in any case, don't act. Just be you.

20yearsolder · Answer

Fuck no it's not a turn off. Just the opposite. It's a huge turn on

Sixgunsound · Answer

I like knowing I did a good job, and would imagine most other men do too. When you say acting, are you faking happiness though?

AviatorTom · Answer

That would turn me on.

JDavid25 · Answer

Nah, sounds great.. My ex was practically in love with me after we first had it and I loved that..

DJB72 · Answer

For me when I was younger it'd be inspirational to try again. Now I'm in my 50s I'd just be grateful for your company while I check my heart rate and respiratory distress was definitely an orgasm not something I'm going to need an ambulance for...

RealMarek · Answer

How would that be a turn-off? I would be happy about it.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

No, it's a turn-on

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Absolutely not! My ex-fiance used to go on a bit about how happy her pussy was after I fucked her and ate her out and how it's got a HUGE smile on it!! It's like rewarding me for a job well done. It's a dirty job but SOMEBODY has to do it!!

exitseven · Answer

Yes, I would expect you to be happy for at least a week.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Why would that ever be turn off? "Oh god, the bitch  liked  having sex with me... Whatever will I do?"

Makeushiver · Answer

Sounds like completely sane behavior. There is nothing as effeective as an orgassm or 19 to make yoour day fell like its off to a good start. I congratulate you on your observations. I think it would be far more preferable than acting depressed after sex,

Nik1hil · Answer

It is more of a positive thing, and a turn on seed memory for the next time, but not turn on at that time.

Andres77 · Answer

Turn on…let’s me know I did a good job.

Mr1derful · Answer

Turn on! Stay!

loveslongnails · Answer

It wouldn't bother me, but why only after sex?

Havthrills · Answer

Nope. Actually love it. Sometimes it can be a turn on and a setting for round 2

Jennz6 · Answer

For him? I don’t know

Sparkie460 · Answer

It wouldn't turn me off at all. I'd tell you to stay as long as you want. I'd love to hear how you feel after sex.

WeirdoFriendly · Answer

I'd be happy to have you hang around if you wanted? Hell, you could stay as long as you'd like. And acting happy would be a turn on for me. I might just fuck you again knowing you liked it so much the first time.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Lmao. How could that possibly be a turn-off?

kellytheman · Answer

I consider it a turn on cause it showed me you enjoyed it and maybe you want to go for round two. Also you should be more happy releasing all your stress and worries for a certain time.

clampfan101 · Answer

That sounds like something cute and helpful for the guy’s confidence.

BJP21 · Answer

No not at all.

AimeeKyle · Answer

Definitely not a turn off.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

If in a relationship not a problem

OddBeMe · Answer

I guess I’d have to see it. What time works best?

nawtee_me · Answer

it is a turn on for me, not sure about others though...

Zolly99999 · Answer

No not at all

peterrezeeek · Answer

i don't care about it...

Shy_Steve · Answer

It can be, But I think it depends on the Guy. It would make me Happy.

CubaPirate · Answer

WTF would it be

Sabretooth · Answer

no...

B4852 · Answer

Major turn on.

krin_m · Answer

Turn on! Big time!

Hulk30 · Answer

turn on but if the relationship is just casual after the sex immediately get the hell outta there and leave

Yellovv · Answer

That will cause second round for sex to me..

Trina5811 · Answer

He should want to fuck u again

Tiger71 · Answer

No. Its not a turn off nor is it a turn on. It might be a bit of an ego boost for the guy. Most guys want to go to sleep after though. Keep that in mind. That’s biological. I wouldn’t advise any casual sex at all though. I’m not preaching at you to stay a virgin until you are married. Nothing wrong with that though. I’m just saying, be choosy, and only date guys you could potentially see yourself with for the rest of your life. You don’t have to commit to them, but if you are just having one night stands, or FBs, that’s not doing you any good. I’m sure the guys love it though. I was your age when aids was a big deal and this stuff casual sex wasn’t really too available. I missed all of that. LOL. Being that age in the mid late 80s and early 90s sucked. From a male’s perspective.

JonahVanBuren · Answer

im with aviator tom yessir

Mark-V · Answer

no, its cute and a bonding moment if a girl is acting in guarded and spontaneous, this is normal between most couple's

Alperengin10 · Answer

I think its a turn on. What do you think?

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, but I like that kind of thing.

Anonymous · Answer

I think he would love it. If you're unsure just say I love having your sperm inside me about 15 minutes after you're done (though expect his sword to come out again).