As a Dom, I have zero interest, or even ability to enjoy, being dominated, so for me, an "only submissive" girl is ideal. That doesn't make other people wrong - or me right - it's just an acknowledgement that you have to find sex partners you are compatible with. Most people cannot change their nature or what they are attracted to, so thinking you can be with someone and you'll change (or even worse, thinking you'll change them) so that you can be compatible is just setting yourself up for disappointment, at BEST.
Most people seem to have to learn this lesson the hard way, but most people eventually figure out that sexual compatibility is essential for a long-lasting relationship, and since your nature can't be changed, it means that's something you have to figure out (by talking about it) VERY early on, and understanding that if you aren't compatible, you need to break up and find another partner.
Now, maybe some people WANT their girl to take charge once in a while but can overlook the fact that she just isn't designed that way, and that's fine - it means you are compatible with each other. But if the guy HAS to have that, and you can't provide it, or if you have to have something and he can't provide it, then you aren't compatible, and you have to DEAL with that - in most cases by moving on.
Yes and no. I prefer balance in my sexual leanings. I like to sometimes be dominant and other times be more submissive. I think the girl I have been seeing is submissive because she is so used to asshole guys just pounding her. I think over time I gradually get turned on to being more dominant with her because I know that I am making her orgasm that way. So it really changes for me based on what my partner wants. I get turned on by pleasing my partner. But a woman face sitting me and on top is pretty hot.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It wouldn't be a turn off exactly. Thankfully I'm a fairly dominant person. But what I care more about is that my partner is comfortable. I do like when my partner is more aggressive, but what's more important is that we both enjoy ourselves. Lol
No, it's not. A lot of guys like that sort of thing. I wouldn't mind, personally. :p
Nah, my girlfriend has trouble taking charge as well. It's fine.
No, I prefer submissive. Sure once in a blue moon I might feel a bit more on the submissive side, but in the majority of times I'm dominant and want a submissive woman.
I'd prefer she be herself than pretending to be something she's not. If she's being herself and enjoys being submissive that's perfect. A guy that really wants a girl to take charge can achieve the same thing with a submissive girl by telling her to do particular acts that amount to the same thing.
Major turn off. She has to be dominant for me.
I prefer to be more dominate in bed but I don’t mind if she wants to take a turn as well , so I would be ok with a girl that only likes to be submissive
Nope. It's a turn-on
no im dom anyways so it clicks
only if its in non-sexual context such as out shopping on her own or at work.
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