Guys, Is it a turn off or turn on when a girl has a high body count?

Hey! What's everyone's thoughts on a girl that has a high body count? Does it turn you on, off, or does it not really matter?
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  • This is my slut/manwhore equation regarding "body count" - a very obnoxious and revolting phrase but, considering that the people who use it are typically manwhores and sluts anyway, what should I expect?

    I use a formula for both males and females:
    Let Y = cumulative number of distinct sexual intercourse partners
    (that is, the "body count")
    Let X = age-appropriate maximum number of distinct sexual intercourse partners

    X = ROUND_UP [ 1.5 * (AGE - 15) ]
    So:
    Age = 15, X = 0.
    Age = 16, X = 2.
    Age = 17, X = 3.
    Age = 18, X = 5.
    Age = 19, X = 6.
    Age = 20, X = 8.
    Age = 21, X = 9.
    Age = 22, X = 11.

    If Y > MINIMUM (X, 10), then "Slut/Manwhore" else "Age appropriate".

    Basically, what this is saying is:
    1. "Don't fuck until you are at least 16."
    2. "Only fuck in committed relationships; up to 3 committed relationships per every 2 years."
    3. "If you need more than 10 committed relationships by the time you are 22, then something is wrong with you or you're a slut/manwhore who is fucking too often just for fun."

    More than 10 guys is really too much.

    Most guys would be rather uncomfortable competing against such a lengthy history because the probability of his being the best you ever had (or having the biggest dick you've ever had) seriously goes down. He wants to be memorable and important to you and "not just another lay".

    Nor does he want a pussy with "a lot of miles on it" because, frankly, they are considerably looser so the experience isn't as good for him (although it is still mighty fine!).

    So, bottom line; more than 10 guys is too much for the majority of men.

    For the record, my Y ("body count") is 5 and it wasn't 2 until I was almost 26!

    Body 1: 21 y 09 m
    Body 2: 25 y 11 m
    Body 3: 26 y 02 m
    Body 4: 32 y 10 m
    Body 5: 36 y 10 m

  • if i want to be with a girl or not entirely depends on the situation we are when meeting each other.

    so say she's in the situation, where she wants something more permanent, then i'm interested. i'm not speaking about marriage and happy ever after. i'm speaking about her being exclusive for the time we're seeing each other and not fucking other dudes during that time, with the intend of trying to keep it that way for as long as it is good for both of us.

    if she's in the situation, where she doesn't wanna invest time and commit a little bit, then i'm not interested.

    if i was into a bit of uncommited hookup, just having a bit of fun, it would be the opposite for both sides.

    so you see i didn't even mention her body count. that's because it doesn't matter ;)

    • that makes sense, good answer :)

    • actually if she tells me about a high body count, that is sort of attractive. cause that is something i know she doesn't exactly see as something that is a positive point on her resume if you think of dating like a job interview. it shows to me that she's genuine and honest and values being honest more than my opinion of her, which for me establishe a basis of trust that is actually kind of difficult to establish under other circumstances.

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  • A turn-off. The chances of her cheating later down the road become higher, in my opinion

    • Why would that be the case? I don't see the link between the two.

    • More prone to have sex with different people instead of committing to one partner. She'd have to change her lifestyle to be in a monogamous relationship. Also, I've seen it happen both in girls and guys

  • If for a long term partner no.

    People that sleeps around a lot tends to be less happy when they ended up getting married.

  • like she pwns lots of newbs in an FPS?

    I mean, i don't really play FPS's but i'd have to congratulate her, i guess :P

    • She's got at least a 3.0 KDR lol

    • jk of course, but i find this new terminology to be hilarious. As for sex, i prefer mostly for a girl to be honest and straightforward... like, if she sleeps with lots of people, and she pretends like she doesn't, that's the biggest turnoff to me. Just be who you are, and it's ok..

  • Well I certainly would alter my approach. It sure helps with being more straightforward and not take forever before leading to something.
    It's not that I would immediately ask for sex but I definitely would be more loose with the sex related remarks and references

  • From a relationship building point off, it's means you most likely end up as a number in that list, if you want casual sex it doesn't matter because you don't mind being a number.

  • my girlfriend has slept with over 30+ guys including me (no condoms)
    And i could care less.
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    best sex I've ever had was with her. Experienced and well used by other guys. Kinda a turn on for me. .
    I cum where others have ben before me. And thats a big turn on.
    Basically claim her as mine that way.

    High body count dosent mean a damm thing to me. Guys disqualify girls with high counts. But miss out on some great girls. Wich is why i typically date those kinds of girls. .

    they are like any other girls, You would date
    they just like sex a lot more. And dont hide it and aren't picky about it.

  • deal breaker

  • I have to admit that it turns me on knowing that my girl has given blowjobs to all of her other boyfriends before me. It might sound strange, but knowing that her mouth has been filled with the cum of other guys gives me a boner! For real.

    • Then I’m your fantasy woman lol

  • I like it, she knows what she wants and is sexually open

  • I don't care. How would I even know?

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