Is it a turn off to have a very dark vagina as in the clit to be black? Do guys care about the color down there?

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My skin tone is brown light and am scared to show anyone my vagina I do sex with the lights off I feel so insecure... my boyfriend is so angry at me he said he's tired of having sex in the dark he doesn't know that am scared he might leave me if he sees the color of my pussy and that am hiding from him the real reason should I tell him? Am really nervous cause I have just started having sex like 3weeks ago I only done sex 3 times but he wanna see my vagina am so insecure

Being_a_good_Indian · Accepted Answer

All women are unique, and this includes the color of the skin around their vagina.

While one woman might ask ‘why is my vagina dark?’ another might be wondering if the color is too light. The truth is that there is no color that is appropriate for the vagina – whatever color you are accustomed to seeing is perfectly normal. In fact, most women find that the color of the skin around their vagina is darker than the skin on the rest of their body. That means that the area around your vagina might be anything from a very light pink to a very dark brown or even a purple color.
This variation in colors is perfectly normal. However, if you start to suffer from strange symptoms, then a change in color might beconcerned. For instance, if you are itching down there and you suddenly notice a redder color, you might be dealing with a rash. Vaginal infections can also cause changes in pigmentation. This is when you need to get to the doctor as soon as possible.

Your vagina might become darker when you are having sex or sexually aroused, thanks to the copious blood flow that goes to that area when you are ready to have sex. The vaginal tissue swells and becomes lubricated, and the color of the clitoris and inner lips gets darker. This is perfectly normal and might be even fascinating to you if you watch it with a mirror! It’s all very normal and very individual to you and your own arousal.

Tips :

Always wear cotton undergarments.
Maintain a healthy body weight.
Drink six to eight glasses of water every day, and load up on fresh fruits.
Avoid talcum powder and hair removal creams on the vaginal area.
Exfoliate regularly with a mixture of oatmeal and unsweetened yogurt.
Make a paste of unsweetened yogurt and dried orange peels; this promotes fairer skin.

On the groin area, you can use yogurt mixed with lime juice. Apply it for 20 minutes, and then wash it off. Do this once a day.
You can also use freshly squeezed lemon juice on the area.
Gram flour that has been mixed with milk to form a paste is a good lightener. Add a touch of lemon juice to it to get it to the right consistency, and use it for 20 minutes before rinsing it away.
Try a mint leaf paste. Simply crush up the leaves, mix them with lemon juice, and leave them on the groin area for 15 minutes or so, then rinse them away.
A few slices of fresh potato against the skin can lighten it and reduce inflammation as well.
Rub papaya or tomatoes on the area, and let them rest there for a bit, then rinse.

Logorithim · Accepted Answer

No, that's perfectly fine, and anyhow that is not why he is with you. Be honest with him- if he is a decent guy he will reassure you.

kittycat119 · Accepted Answer

No dude cares. The color comes in many different shades ranging from a pale peach, to pink, brown, and dark purple shades. No man is gonna care the color. He's just gonna be happy he's getting laid

MissDyno · Accepted Answer

I'm sure he will still be with you no matter what your vagina looks like. Stop worrying so much :)

ghostqueen · Accepted Answer

It's a pussy, he's not gonna give a fuck. Turn the damn lights on.

H2OHydrox · Answer

Tell him that. Exactly that.

Cuintan · Answer

I do not.

reptocarl · Answer

I couldn’t care less. They’re all beautiful

chris1965 · Answer

I don't think most people would care about such a thing as that. I wouldn't worry about it at all turn the lights on and have that it. I think you have worked yourself into such a state that you are worried but don't be.