Is it a turn off when a girl spits cum instead of swallows?

[TheSpanierd]

Never given a blowjob before so i dont know whether i would spit or swallow but i wanna know if spitting is a turn off

[MrOracle]

Most guys would prefer the girl swallow, and many girls prefer that too, as there's often less mess/clean-up, and some just like to do it.

As for spitting, there's kind of two ways to do it. The first (bad) way is to jump up and run, squealing and flapping your arms as you go, into the bathroom to spit and vigorously rinse your mouth out in the sink. To a guy, this is a rejection, and kind of a slap in the face. Imagine if a guy did this to you after eating you out; how would you feel about his reaction to your vaginal fluids/taste?

The second way is to let his cum dribble out over your chin and drip down onto your boobs, where you play with it and rub it in a little. Still not quite as good as swallowing, but FAR less objectionable, and more a little hot.

[Red_Arrow]

Most guys want a swallower. It is no big deal to me. I figure the BJ is the attraction and the spit or swallow is the cleanup. In fact, a girl that does not swallow is probably one who is doing this mainly for the guy and she is not as into it as one who swallows. So I would actually be more appreciative of one who is going outside their comfort level for me.

No. Not a turn off.

[sarmac]

i remember the first time i gave a bj, i planned on swallowing but i guess i just wasn't used to the taste and i almost gagged when he came and he told me to just spit it out.
i'm sure that most guys prefer you to swallow but i'm sure it wouldn't be that big of a deal if you spit. then after some practise.. you'll be swallowing in no time

[islands7]

try to swallow and lick every last drop, then kiss it
if no good for you
then no spit, instead make it appear he's dumped SO much your petite mouth can't hold it call, so let it (push it) out to dribble over your chin and hopefully your breasts

extra credit for rubbing it into your breasts, then after the effect, "may I have a towel?"

[E_Stone]

I think most guys like it when you swallow--there's sort of an added level of commitment (to the act) that it suggests. If a girl can't or won't swallow though, try to spit discretely or, better, let it spill out of your mouth. You can avoid swallowing and still make it sexy.

[Dionysos]

It's more that it's a plus when she swallows. It sounds stupid but it's a conscious acceptance of your essence. Big bonding points for it if it's not to gross. Spitting it out discretely is fine. I mean, he just got a BJ and she let him cum in her mouth. What's he got to complain about?

[TadCurious]

it's bad form to spit. If you're not going to swallow, make sure you tell your guy not to cum in your mouth. Also, you should know the signs he's about to cum. One sure fire way is when his balls draw up really tight to his body.

[Malcom_Reynolds]

It's not that it's a turn off when she spits, it's just neutral. It's a turn on when she swallows though.

[kangaru2]

Y do the girls need to shallow it

[willshere]

I prefer she swallows

[scottb80]

A blowjob is a blowjob, I'd be happy either way.

[Karlsson7]

Like when a girl spits out the cum

[Anonymous]

No. My lover fills her palm with my load to show me how much she got. I think that is hotter than swallowing. You really don't know how you did if she swallows it.

[Anonymous]

Spitters are quitters. I wouldn't say that I get turned off if she spits, but it's a huge turn on if she swallows.