Girls, Is it abusive to spank ur teenage daughter for masturbating?

[blazesteered]

[Little_Bumblebee]

Yes, it is.
And it can ruin the daughter's sexuality in the future and her relationship to sex.
It's important to explore your own sexuality, your body, and to enjoy what it's capable of.

Even if the parents want them to wait till marriage, that is not their choice, and also, that kind of "parenting" can ruin the woman's sexual life even when they do get married.

Let her masturbate, it is healthy and normal and not something others should decide whether she does or not.

[blazesteered]

it will make her feel bad for it and every time a boy smacks her butt it will trigger her and confuse her and repeat the PTSD trauma

[Mystic_Nova]

I say so. Spanking is degrading, especially family for something as normal as masterbating. And why is a grown man, spanking his teenage daughter?

[blazesteered]

to discipline her and I was asking this question Because I think it would be wrong and wanted to see what girls thought.

[blazesteered]

a lot of the questions I ask are coming from a "I think this is fucked up, what do you think" inherently negative view from the start question.

[laraWM]

It is of course abusive and make her unsafe about her future sexuality. In fact, I feel it is abusive to spank your child for any reason. And it seems your question implies it'd be ok if your teenage son masturbated, I hope it is not the case

[MissGeorgia]

It kinda weird that you are thinking about it

[katiesmuff]

Yes it would be, but worse than that is your going to loose your daughter as she rebels.

[purplepoppy]

Yes but if you do it while she's masturbating it's kinky

[blazesteered]

wtf its ur daughter...

[EllieEmma99]

Yes, this would be abusive to a daughter

[edgykid19]

Yes.

It's counterproductive. Now she has shame attached to the act of masturbating and in the future will not ask you any questions about sex, dating, or relationships in fear of your abuse.

Have a talk with her, apologize, take her out to lunch. Gently inform her on safe sex, healthy relationships, and boundaries. In fact, apologize profusely. Let her know that from now on you will knock when you enter her room. ANd again, apologize.

[Andreapuss]

Yeah you should let them do it

[Tamii693]

No why would you want to spank her? Would you rather have her being horny and have sex with guys than getting herself off at home?

[Agape93]

Uh yeah wtf

[Gwenhwyfar]

Yes!!!